Hi kishi, what would you advise someone who's trying to learn your own native language, Chinese?
Write down your suggestions for the above question. And then follow them yourself, replacing the word "Chinese" with "English" everywhere.
If you have the right motivation (that is, WHY you want to do something and what you think you'll get out of it), you will definitely find a way to do it. You just need the WILL to do it.
Where there's a will, there's a way. So, work on your motivation first. Everything else follows automatically.