life is in the process of seek love,every one in the life will find four persons

one is yourself

the second is the person who you love most 

the third is the person who love you most 

the fourth is the person who share lifetime 

firstly you will encounter the man you love most,then experience the feeling of love;

because of understand the feeling of being loved,so you can find out the person who love you most;

when you experience loving others and being loved,learn loving,become to know what is you need,also to find out adapting to you,the person who can mix in cradle to grave.

But very sad,in the realize life,the three man usually is not the same man;

the person you love most,sometimes do not select you;

the person love you most,sometimes is not you love most;

but the longest,unluckily is not you love mostly also is not love you mostly,

only is the person who appear at the most adapt time.

you,will become which person of others' life?

nobody change one's heart on purpose,when he love you is truely love

but when she don't love you is really she do not love you,

when she love you is she can not pretend to not love you;

alike, when she do not love you she can not pretend to love you

when one do not love you want to leave you,

you should ask yourself whether you love her,

if you do not love him,isnot willing to leave  for the pity of self-respect;

if you still love him,you should hope him to live happily,

hope him to live with the person who loved her really,do not prevent extremely,

love is not occupy,

you love moon,it is impossible to put the moon to the washbasin.

But the ray of lights of the moon still can shine to your room.

in another words,you love one person,still can use another method,

let the lover become the  forever memory of the life,

if you love one person,you should love the original manner of him.love his good,also love his bad;

love his excellence,also love his disadvantage,

do not because love him,then hope him to become the manner of

but if you donot love him,what qualification would you reprehension to him to change heart?

really love one person can not tell the reason,

you know whatever whereever,in a good humor or bad humor,you will wish this man accompany with you;

real sensation is the two persons can guard each other in the trial,without any request.

after all,sensation should pay out,is not seek out;

disjoin is a necessary trial,

if your sensation is not steady,only to  give the battle,

true love is not become hate.

when the two man amorism each other,

the most like way is to pledge opposite,allow  to promise why we pledge to side,

this is because we do not believe opposite,we do not believe sweet heart rootly,but these mountain like ocean like promise is unrealistic;when the seas run dry and the rocks crumble,the ground become old the sky become shortage,it can not change  the love i make to you!

it is conscious that the sea will not dull,the stone will not rot,the ground will not become old,the sky will not shortage;

even if it will,it can not live to that time,

it should be attention that when promise,

do not promise the faith come true,

it had better promise the things can not undertaking,

it can not finish in reverse,it is not never mind to say it voluntariness,

please remember:"it is winningness to carry out the faith."

in the love ,say is one suit,do is another suit;

the person says it do not believe,the person listens also do not believe.

what about you?you find which one?

in the vast human sea,you encounter who?and who encounter you?