1. Express emergencies slowly. When facing emergencies, you will impress your audiences with your stableness and imperturbability and enhance their trust on you if you can think of it calmly, and then express it slowly and clearly.

2. Express trifles humorously. It is particularly true for some well-intentioned reminding. If you remind a person in a funny way, they won't feel awkward; instead, they will not only accept your advice willingly, but also feel more intimate with you.

3. Express the things you are not sure prudently. As to those things you are not sure, others will consider you hypocritical if you choose to avoid, on the contrary, they will think of you as a person worthy of trust if you can uncover it carefully.

4. Express nothing to things that didn't happen. People hate those most that always spread a rumor. So, they will regard you as a person who is mature, well -cultivated, serious and responsible if you have never said nonsense about things that didn't happen,

5. Never make promise about things you lack capability. Just as an old saying goes:” No ability, no undertaking”. Never give promise to things beyond your ability, so that others will believe you are sincere in what you say, and to carry out what you do.

6. Never say thins that will hurt others. Never hurt others by words, especially to those who is very close with you, then people will think that you are a kind person and the lubricant to the relationship.

7. Never spread your sadness to everybody. Every person wants to confide when he or she comes across bad things, but it will end up with others suspicion and estrangement to you because of the overwhelming stress caused by your outpouring. Meanwhile, you will be a person who is not considerate because you spreaded your pain to others.

8. Express others' affairs carefully. Everybody needs a safe distance with others. No comment on or spreading to others' story at random will give others security as your friends.

9. Listening instead of speaking about your own business. There are two advantages to listen instead of speaking when talking about your own business: one is to give others an image of modesty about you; the other is to make you a person standing to sense.

10. More listening rather than commenting about elders' affairs. Elders usually don't feel right if the juniors comment too much about their business. If you do, you won't be a modest or bookish young man in his or her heart any more.

11. Discuss pair's matters in a conferential way. Blaming each other is the worst situation of all that appear between the husband and wife. Contrarily, the lovers will love each other more if they can say things in a conferential way.

12. Teach your kids in a edificatory. It is especially true to the youth, because they are in a very rebellious phase when to them, only gentleness can be accepted. What's more, teaching them in a gentle way, can not only correct them, but also make them willing to think you as a friend.