If you ask what topic is the hardest one in 21 century, the answer is: Going together is the hardest topic. Here this going together is the going together whose ultimate aim is marrage, and it is the process of deepening the lover’s love during their contact.
Once a male friend has frankly said that: All men want to play games with girl when they are young, but they also want a virgin at their marry age. However, they forget that the virgins have been played by them already. Should be virgin there when you get married? Then, some men pushed the responsibility upon women, they criticized that women had no dignity. In nowadays society, men should be keep cleaner life than women.
Making love is the easiest thing to some people, even some guys don’t take off their pants when they are making love. Just opening zips to do that. Such men are just finding a tool but not love, love is an ability to execute, not a thing to use as you want. Such people are just repeating human’s ancientest instinct, and it can’t be judged whether right or not. Only can speak that this kind of men have no right to speak love. These smart-ass lavish thire sperms, but do not know this also lavish their opportunities! When you treat love as a game, love will see you as nothing. There’s no who should say sorry to whom in the world, but there should be who didn’t know to cherish whom.
Many people said that, marriage is the grave of love, however, who want to die with no grave? If you get long with a man for a long time ( ordinary 3 to 5 years), and you two have no big differences in love and life, but this guy does not want to get married, then you must stop to delusion that he will marry you, this man don’t think you are the one he likes under his subconsciousness, not to mention to be his wife. The only reason why he still keep in touch with you and make execuses with the long time you spend together, your deep love, and can’t be separated is that he hasn’t found the next woman who can let him enjoyed until now. If you are unfortunately met this kind of man, please leave him as soon as possible. It doesn’t matter that you lose confidence to man, more importance is that don’t let other men to lose interesting on you.
In fact, if you want to know whether a man want to marry you or not, one week’s time is enough to find out the answer.
In the early stage of love, generally, man will date you initiatively, moreover, he would to show his fascination in front of you, in this stage, you can appreciate him by your eyes, or maybe answer him with an smile. In the following stage, man will get you to some places which you want to go or maybe they want to get you to go, please pay attention to at this time, this is an economic explosion socity, each investment wants payback, even the love. And the payback for the investment of love is marriage, certainly it’s the conclusion of normal and perfect. But some unnormal and gorgeous conclusion is to use so-called love investment to change the satisfaction of sex. If the man often take you to some entertainment place, your dating content are almost eating, drinking, or dancing, then leave that man quickly! Such kind of man knows in his heart that if they invest his money on some other present, after you separating later, there’s no payback at all, but if he invest his money on entertainment, he also enjoyed it, so if count the lose, then this costs need less investment. What’s more, how would a man likes his future wife often to appear these places? Dosen’t it looks like the man find himself another job: postman, wearing a whole green suit, and a green cap!
If you still hold on obstinately errors at this time, and you still believe that the man can bring you happiness, then what’s happening next will hurts you deeply. Men will choose a proper time that they think is ok and ask to make an exchange with your body (some time men just make an atomosphere by themselves, and women just like actress who cannot hold on themselves to enter a play completely.) Because this kind of man does not want to get married to you at all at the beginning, though they show themselve how eager they want to devote themselves to love, the fact always that they only want to have sex with you. Moreover this purposiveness is very strong! It can’t stand the test of time. After all, the normal man has once sex fantasy per six seconds. Certainly, not all men like that, good men need refinement, after they are tired of playing games, and they find the importance of a family to themselves, they’ll go to hold the burden of a marriage and a family. How long this process will be? Men don’t know themselves, and women cannot wait all the time, after all, waiting and committing need to pay the price.
If you can not make sure the one who in front of you are your future husband, then don’t give him the chance to possess your body. We know, we just ask for some hurts by ourselves some time, so don’t give men the rights to hurt you, why should we be the victims after possessed by men? It’s not a good thing to get other’s sympathy, and other’s compassion will never cure the ache of the wound.