We all hope that our future husband to be gentle and considerate.But in fact, few men are born to be throughtful and considerate and know how to look after their wives. Most of the good man are guided and trained by women. So when we have a good man, we should know that what we are enjoying at the moment is the fruit of his ex-girlfriend.

 

To be his first love?

He knew nothing, and he wrote several love letters when he was chasing after you.He even didn’t dare to buy a flower for you and call your name out of your dormitory building. He thought for two days and hesitated for half an hour when he first held your hand in his. When he said “I love you”for the first time, his face suddenly blushed and his body was trembling. When he first kissed you, he was afraid that his behavior would offend you, so he asked whether you agreed or not.　When you two were together, he even didn’t know what to do, he always looked at your eyes and smiled naively. You asked him who he loves most and he didn’t tell lies and would tell you who he loves most is his mother.You asked him whether he was going to marry you, he thought for a while and replied he hadn’t even thought about it.

  

To be his second love?

He would buy flowers for you and invite your roommates out for dinner. He would say I love you and hold your hand in his and run to the centre of the campus fountain,then he would encircle you in his arms and finally he won your love.The moment you agreed to be his girlfriend, he kissed you. He would say that girlfriend should wash clothes for her boyfriend, send water and wipe the sweat when he is playing basketball.When you asked him who he loves most, he would thought for a while and say that is you. You asked whether you two have future,and he asked you whether you want to go to his hometown with him? Once in a while, he would think about his first love and he also said that at that time he was too young and he even didn’t know what is love.

 

To be his third love?

He said ‘though I have nothing, I have a heart that only belongs to you. Believe me and we will be happy.Then in order to save money in an unfamiliar city you two lived in a small room with simple and crude toilet and kitchen. Everymorning you got up earlier than him and occasionally you made breakfast for him. Then you two take different buses to work. In the evening, you bought vegetables on your way home and made supper for him. He said he was the happiest one in the world just because of having you. Occasionally he would wash the dish, clean the floor and wash clothes.You had to live a frugal life in order to pay off the debt in your credit card that owed when you were at school. He said when we have saved enough money,we would get married. His mother came and washed the sheet for you and said only when the room is clean, can you live comfortably. You went home with him back to his hometown. He said ‘my father said that you are not as beautiful as my ex-girlfriend.’

 

To be his fourth love?

He said ‘we can get along well with each other.’The evening he sent you home he didn’t leave and stayed for a night. He knew how to look after you and love you.He always knew what women need, what women what to listen and what women like. He would give you a pleasant surprise before you demand for something.He would buy snacks and make night snacks for you. If you look at something for three times, he would buy it for you the next day. He bought a house and wrote your name on the building property title certificate. His mother met you and said, good girl,you are not young now,you should get married. You thought you were happy and accepted his diamond ring. One day, you searched his computer and saw a letter he wrote to his ex-girlfriend. In the letter he told your story and at last he wrote ‘I meant to do all these things for you, but I didn’t  have the right condition and didn’t know that I should do this. Good memory is always sweet,but you must believe that you two will have a bright future.

 

We all hope that our future husband to be gentle and considerate.But in fact, few men are born to be throughtful and considerate and know how to look after their wives. Most of the good man are guided and trained by women. So when we have a good man, we should know that what we are enjoying at the moment is the fruit of his ex-girlfriend.

Perhaps, in every man’s heart, there is a woman he can never forget for a moment. At this time, don’t be jealous and don’t try to destroy it. Because in everyone’s life, there is a sweet experience. Just like us, maybe we are always remembered by someone.

Allow your man to have a shadow in his heart,but only a shadow. You don’t need to worry that this shadow would disturb your life.You believe that a good memory is always sweet,but you must also believe that you two will have a much brighter future. Please believe that a man who really loves you will not let you cry and even shed a drop of tear.

But I don’t know how many girls understand this?