传说，爱情使者丘比特问爱神阿佛洛狄忒：LOVE的意义是什么？ 爱神阿佛洛狄忒回答：LOVE中的“L”代表LISTEN，就是“倾听”。“O”代表OBLIGATE，就是“感恩”。“V”代表VALUED，就是“尊重”。“E”代表EXCUSE，就是“宽恕”。丘比特点了点，对阿佛洛狄忒的回答很是满意。 LOVE就是要无条件无偏见地倾听对方的需求，并予以协助。不管是朋友之间的爱、与父母的爱、与孩子的爱、还是男女间的爱，我们都应该做到用心倾听对方的语言，用心体会对方的感受。假如对方有难处，我们当然要无条件地给予帮助！ LOVE还需要不断地感恩与慰问，需要我们付出更多的爱去灌溉爱苗。说到感恩，我想每个人的心里都会涌起了汩汩暖流吧！感恩不是一件华丽的外衣，单单用来吸引别人的目光；感恩也不是一种绚丽的颜色，仅仅用来留住别人的视线；感恩是生命底色中沉积的真诚的流露，是血脉中流淌的善良的迸发，是心灵中储藏的美丽的呈现。常怀一颗感恩之心，去关心爱你的人和你爱的人，让爱的花朵更加娇艳美丽！ LOVE就是展现你的尊重、表达体贴、真诚的鼓励和悦耳的赞美。尊重别人也就是尊重自己，更何况是尊重自己爱的人？给对方予以温柔的体贴；在他（她）遇到困难与挫折的时候，你真诚的鼓励是他（她）前进的动力；成功时刻、喜悦瞬间，你的赞美与欢呼是最美的语言！ LOVE就是仁慈地对待、宽恕对方的缺点与错误，维持优点与长处。仁慈、宽恕是人世间的美德。任何人都不是故意想去犯错的，用仁慈的心态去宽恕他人的错误，用友善的语气指正他人的缺点，相信任何人都会对你感激于心的！ LOVE的真正意义就是用心倾听对方的需求，用感恩之心予以温暖的慰问，还要懂得尊重与真诚，更要懂得仁慈与宽恕！ Tags: LOVE Related posts No related posts.
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