Peopless perceptions of themselves is a funny thing, very often it is diametrically opposed to what even the people closest to them think, friends, family, spousesoften perceive you very differently then you perceive yourself. A case in point, the other day I was having dinner with one of my friends who is a good person and has a lot of great qualities. Unfortunately, sensitivity is not one of those qualities, she might be the least sensitive person I have ever met, basically she is abull in a c