Elanso

Flowers. Chocolates. Jewelries. Cakes. These are a few of the things guys give to show that they are interested on you. But believe me or not these are not assurances that he will love you forever.

How will you know if he is then for real? I have interviewed some married woman and here are their answers:

1. If he introduced you to his family and friends

   Introducing you to his friends is an indication that he is proud of you while to his family means that he is serious with you. If he's seeing someone else, he wouldn't want his family and friends to know it especially his mother for he will be doomed!

2. If he spends quality time with you

   If he wants to talk with you often than touching you mean he wants to get to know you better. Chances are he will accept you whoever you are.

3. If he looks directly in your eyes

   Looking directly in one's eye means the person who is talking is not lying. So observe the way he looks at you, if there is no eye contact, it's either he's shy of he's telling a lie.

4. If he is willing to meet your parents

   Sincerity is also revealed especially if the guy wants to meet your family especially your protective parents. He is for real if he tries to please them because he's thinking that they are a part of your life.

5. If he keeps his promises

   Now this is also important. If he can't keep simple promises like arriving on time for your date he wouldn't be able to keep big promises like marrying you.

6. If he befriends your friends

   Being friends with your friends is also a good indication. He wants to know you more through your friends. But take note, being friends is different form flirting with.

7. If he listens to you and respects your decisions

   Listening to you intently and respecting your decision is equally important. Guys are always thinking that they have the authority over girls which of course should be obsolete nowadays.

8. If he appreciates you at your worst

   Worst appearance and smell often times turns off a guy. But this will show if he's just into your physical attribute of the whole you. Accepting you no matter what you look or smell mean he loves you dearly.

And when he did all these things, it is time for you to do the same. Remember love should be a give and take relationship.