I often hear my good friends complaining why they cannot come across good men. We have no ideas about how men thinking of this or what kinds of women do they dream of. Maybe even themselves cannot express clearly. On these thoughts I wrote down the followings , I have no special meaning and just want to encourage our women friends who bear the qualities of good women to remain themselves as they are, and have confidence that they can meet the right man. And also, I`d like to give some suggestions to men which include what kinds of women deserve their treasure for a lifetime.
1. Women who have high self-esteem
It has been taken as a unique fashion in the so fast pace time to sleep and make love with strangers.
What is the real requirement of mankind? Only physical desire? Human being, a more advanced living species than animals, should not degenerate to such an awkward level. When a good woman meet her favorable man, she should live to understand him and make sure whether he is the right one in her life, and then let everything develop with the deepening of love. You may ask men who dare to marry a woman who makes love with men casually? So when you come across the woman who has a high self-esteem you should grasp her tightly, after all, women of this kind are too limited now.
2. Women who are responsible
In this age which only emphasizes the responsibility of man actually women should take responsibility as well.
There are many women who choose to stay with her man only because of his power, his money, and the benefit of living with him. They take their affection and physical body as a tool to get what they want. Women of this kind stay with you for some certain things and may leave you for other things another day. Do you dare to marry such irresponsible women? Good women are responsible to others and themselves and can control themselves before money.
3. Women who use their own minds.
The pressure from modern times becomes increasingly pressing, and men have already shouldered lots of great burdens in the outside world. A women who uses her own mind should spare some burden for her man, at least she has her own cause and life value and does not only cling to her man. Women can learn much from social experiences and pressures and becomes more and more mature, special, firm and brave. Women who use their own mind can control themselves before money. It is true that nobody hates money, but it is not the same that money means everything. Can you buy true love? Is it reliable that affections and marriages set on money? You know, she will leave as his worth used up. So women who use their own mind know what do they want and not only pursue fame and money.
4. Women who love their man as well as themselves
Woman who does not love themselves men will not love her as well. Many women devote too much for their beloved men, but neglect their own existence, only to be deserted by their men. In some perspective, men are coddled by their women to be unfaithful. Men are always curious, and no matter how many love given to them, they only feel it should be like that and will not treasure it for a long time term. So wise women are first love themselves , love their body, love their appearance, and change their looks frequently, so as to make their men be interested of them. Man cannot help to love women of this kind when they came across them.
5. Women who have their own space and give space to men as well
Woman of this kind has her own friends and will chat with them when she is not happy and does not always throw all the unhappy things to her half one. This is the so-called the outsider sees clearer. She has her own male friends but she is very clear of the relations with him, so you do not worry about this because she can control the degree. She will also give you enough space so that you have your own freedom and enjoy the trust from her. And also she can help you with your course.
6. Women who are noble enough before your guests and useful enough in the kitchen.
Although it is talked for a long time, no matter how advanced our society develops, men still hope their wives are bright in public and cook tasty meals at home. But it is too hard for women to achieve this. So just come on women! Women of this kind care you very much and win you enough reputations outside.
7. Women who love you by their hearts.
She maybe not the most beautiful women, nor the most quality one, nor the smartest one, but she must the one who loves you the most. She will take care of you when you are ill; she will encourage you when you are complaining; she will help you selflessly when you need her and gives you the most help. Perhaps she is just a bit rattling, but that is all because she loves you.
Man, please treasure women of the above kinds when you meet her. Maybe she does not meet all the qualities, but I suggest you choose three ones of the above qualities that you mind the most, if she meet the three, then she is the one who deserves your care for a lifetime.