Nine-word Zhen Jing to establish parents’ prestige.
Morality—Parents should enhance their Moral Character Cultivation,so that they can build lofty images in children’s hearts with noble moral integrity and perfect personality.
Ability—Parents should constantly improve their abilities in practice and have a good command of genuine ability. It is very difficult for children to truly admire their parents who have no genuine ability and learning.
Severity—Parents should establish a kind of congenial parent-child relationship. Exceeded love and distorted love would create affective disturbance between parents and children.
Respect—Parents should respect children’s personality, rights, interests, and self-choice rather than impose their will on children.
Faith—Parents should attain the children’ trust, tell them the truth and keep promises instead of making promises at will.
Harmony—Parents should keep a harmonious relationship and they should take a kind attitude to children. There should be democracy and equality between parents and children.
Tolerance—Parents should be tolerant and considerate to their children. Meanwhile, they should allow children to make mistakes and give children the room for self-examination.
Hearing—Parents should listen to the voices of children, communicate with them more often, and care about their mental needs.
Seeing—Parents should have a keen eye for children’ advantages. When children have made progress, timely praise and encouragement should be given so that the children can know the value of their existence and enhance their self—confidence.
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