When Rebekah Benimoff's husband returned from his second tour of duty as an Army chaplain in Iraq, she watched in horror as he — and their marriage — completely unraveled.T RogerFrom: RebekahRe: Missing YouDate: April 4, 2005Dear Honey,I do not have long tonight, as I have an early morning tomorrow, but I wanted to...tell you that I miss you terribly! Today Blaine told me he misses you and wants to be an "Army man like Daddy."... I asked him what things he misses, and he said, "Horsey."... I tol