"Oh， no！ Here I am at an American family's home at the dinner table. There are all kinds of plates， saucers， cups， and silverware at my place. Which should I use for which food？ Should I sit down first or wait for the host to invite me？ Should I have brought a gift？ Someone please tell me what to do！Have you ever been in or had a nightmare about this situation？ Don't worry！ This article will help steer you through the rocks and reefs of Anglo-American table manners so that if you are ever abroad