Image: http://www.flickr.com/photos/jurvetson/ / CC BY 2.0 “When you are content to be simply yourself and dont compare or compete, everybody will respect you.” Lao Tzu One destructive habit is to constantly compare your life and yourself to other people and their lives. You compare cars, houses, jobs, shoes, money, relationships, social popularity and so on. And at the end of the day you create a lot of negative feelings within. And perhaps also outside of yourself. But how can you stop doing i