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When Disaster Comes, Will You Hold Lover’s Hand?

In this disaster, I have heard of many heart-warming and sad stories that contain half-and-half happiness and sadness, of which two true stories that just happened during May earthquake period is really moving to me. The couple who originally loved each other divorced, the couple who originally went to handle divorce procedure came together again. Quiet life came back again after they fleed from the earthquake. As the saying goes that a friend in need is a friend indeed. The current earthquake is indeed a “disaster”, it can test friends' real heart in an emergency, and certainly we also can see “real sensation” of couples at the dangerous life-relating time.

Two love stories happened when the earthquake came, which made people have infinite emotion and moan.

One story was about a pair of couple that seemed to have conjugal love. After two years of love, they married. They didn't have babies after marriage. It seemed that they are full of happiness.

On earthquake eve, these two people leaned close to one another watching TV. When it's more than 2 o'clock, the storied building started to shake slightly. But they didn't care about it. Subsequently, the building shook more and more terribly. At this time, they found that things are sinister. “ Earthquaking! ” He shouted, rapidly opened the door, and ran out by himself without a backward glance.

The woman was frightened by the earthquake, and was even more “shook” by his selfish action, and has no reaction temporarily. After the man ran to the grind floor, he started to appear conscience and came back to find his wife again. Later, in order to remedy his misstep, he keened down to her, and adjured her to forgive him. He said that he was not purposive and he loved her very much. However, the wife was extremely disappointed and sad and decided to divorce.

Another story was about the couple who were going to separate. On the day that earthquake came, they had prepared to go to handle divorce procedure.

Marriage registry of that city was placed on the 21st floor of one high building. When the earthquake happened, the building was shaking terribly. All of the people got into extreme scare. At this time, he stretched warm and powerful hand to her. During the course of fleeing to the floor, these two nearly-40-year-old couple committed to each other with hand in hand: “If we can survive this time, we should get together well.” When the couple ran down all the way from the 21st-floor marriage registry, like many lovers, they embraced each other and cried, they vowed that they wouldn’t separate all their life.

I saw this question before, ie, when the disaster came, will you hold lover's hand? At its side, a cartoon was matched. It said that, could you hold flowers in both hands to wait at my door in the rain? Could you recognize my swimsuit color in the beach that has thousands of people? Could you calmly wash socks for me before everybody's eyes? Could you tightly hold my hand when disaster came? On the picture, firstly the hand was raised as close as forest, then the hand was put down with low and low, and again and again the hand was put down with low and low. Finally, it seemed that there was blank……

Yes, it's not difficult to speak some sweet talk and do some small romantic things, and even temporarily let down the self-esteem to compromise for the love. The most difficult thing is that when it comes to the life and death test, can you still disregard your safety and danger, and boldly hold lover's hand?

Of course, we should be full of confidence to life and love. We cannot forecast the text that may come in the life. What we ought to do is to make our heart and thoughts immune to the spectacle, fill us with selfhood, cultivate a noble soul. In this way, when disaster comes, we won't gaffe, won't shrink, and won't be disappointed by lovers. We will tightly hold lover's hand, and bridge over the difficulties.



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