Its time to let you know about a big personal change thats happening with Erin and me. Weve decided to separate, and were planning to get a divorce. We came to this decision very consciously, and were separating amicably because we can see its the best thing for both of us. We intend to remain good friends and continue working together, so as far as our blogging is concerned, its going to be business as usual for the time being. Why? Over the years weve both noticed that our goals and desires we