1.        Don’t talk love with others when you feel alone. Since time is a ghost. If you are an emotional person and even you don’t love your mate, you will have an affection for him or her. Then how can you deal with it?

2.        Don’t make love with others easily otherwise you will regret your imprudent doings when your lover is a man of high principle who leads an honest and clean life.

3.        Consider whether you are a virgin before expecting your lover maiden. If you are, you can otherwise you can’t.

4.        Don’t give up courting your lover who is more beautiful than you. Appearance is just an impression and it’s the characters of both that play an important role in deciding whether you can get married. I have seen many handsome men get married with ugly women and vice versa.

5.        It doesn’t matter to talk love with a person who has great difference with you in living habits. But when you want to get married with him or her, you need to be prudent and think twice whether you can stand up with the difference for a life-long time.

6.        It is often said that men should have machismo and women should have femininity. But do you know what is machismo and what is femininity? Machismo means men should be brave and open-minded while femininity means women should be tender and considerate.

7.        It is happy to talk love with a smart person because he is humorous and voluble. But it is dangerous for he may fall in love with others easily. You may at ease talk love with an honest person although the life will be boring.

8.        Some people always complain that they could not fine a good fellow. It doesn’t matter that you fall in love with ill persons once or twice, but it would be troublesome if you meet more. First you should make self-criticism, if there is nothing wrong with you, you need to check your views. Why it is you who always love ill persons.

9.        It is said once a man changes his heart, nine oxen can’t pull it back, then how can they pull a woman’s heart back?

10.     If you really love a person, you will change willingly and gladly for his or her sake. He doesn’t love you if he persists in his old ways and ignores your dislikes in front of you. So if you don’t care him enough, you don’t love him and vice versa. Don’t ascribe it to your carelessness or to his. A coward will become brave when meeting his lover. The same with a careless man.

11.     A mature man won’t look back to the past, a smart man won’t be contented with the present and an open-minded man won’t be worried about the future.