There are nearly 6,000,000,000 people on the earth, but how many of them we can hug? How many of them we can hold their hands? How many of them we can talk to but not touch? How many of them we have passed through? Sometimes,we wonder that we can count on the fingers of one hand the people can go deeply into our internal mind. If chance is offered me, I would rather degenerate to be a monkey.So we can share the sunshine, enjoy the soft wind and watch what human beings is doing together,relying on the trees and lying on the grass. I realize that there are many different spaces in the interpersonal mind.In a concrete way, it is like the different floor of a builing!

 On the first floor is “the shop front friend”.Usually, 20 fixed phrases are sufficient For example: How are you?Have a meal? Where are you going? How nice! Fortunately! Nothing! Like like this! Everyone looks like very peaceful, quiet, satisfied and maturial.

On the second floor is “the friends of  sitting-room”,we can have a tea and gossip together. We spend time together on taking about the politics, economy, new opportunity in business,latest news, Lotto lottery ticket.We can foget the loneliness in the bottom of  our  heart,then feel that we have achieved the great happiness.

On the third floor is “the friends of kitchen”,who we can talk plainly to. If this kind of friends are feminine, the talks will be ended with laugher or tears. Then we feel that we are understood fully by each other and life is not lonely at all.

“The bedroom friend”, who is intimate and touchable lives on the fourth floor of the building,.In some bedrooms,the traditional daylight lamp is always buring,and everything goes in accordance with the traditional custom. Other bedrooms are always turned off the lamp, we may exert our fantasy and reflection freely, having your own dream.. Also, some bedrooms are decoraed witth many lamps imported. No matter what kind of lamp the rooms have, there is always a potential electric power of magic in the bedroom. The person, who understand how to control the light, can be your “companion”.However, the person, who switches the light on the unappropriate occasions,is likely to be “stumbling block” in your life. The God is intelligently good at making you the master this magic power.

The attic balcony is generally emptied there. Nothing knows its future.This kind of friends belongs to “the destined friend”. Sometimes there is a flying bird, a blade of blowing grass, piles of soil, drops of seeds, and you have no idear of  when it will bloom and what kind of flower you will see ? Certainly,it bears no fruit we expect . Perhaps a shower has moistened the mind,and perhaps a breeze has blowed the heart. Some people rush in this place unexpectedly . Some walk quickly, some slowly. This roof seems like empty, but you know that it is not true.It is ladened with your old time, which occasionally will accompany you at nighttime. These old time, which perhaps is the topic you use to get closer to descendant, will also help you to write down to book of your life. These may also once recall your eye's wrinkle of that mood and become many stories.

I am accustomed to leave one second for passing through the shop front, two seconds for living rooms, three minutes for the kitchen, four hours sleeping in the bedroom, five days waiting on the roof.I hope that God brings some surprise and beauty to my life. Sometimes，when the eyes are packed with the tear of gratitude, we will forget that there are 6,000,000,000 people on the earth. But some little touching storie makes us feel that we are the owner of everything, friends and the moods of this entire building.

Another kind of friend is “myselves”, he does not belong to any floor of the building. He accompanies us all the time.To know him, accept him, how to get along with him are the lesson of our whole life.

An ordinary friend has never seen  you  sobbing.

A genuine friend offers his shoulders which you can cry on.

An ordinary friend does not know the surnames of your parents.

A genuine friend leaves their telephone number in your directory.

An ordinary friend brings a bottle of grape wine to your party.

A genuine friend will come early to help you prepare the dinner,and leave a liitle bit late to help you clean the house.

An ordinary friend hates to receive your phone call when he is sleeping.

A genuine friend will say why you call him until now.

An ordinary friend just talk about your problem.

A genuine friend tries to solve your problem.

An ordinary friend is curious about your love affairs.

A genuine friend can ask you to talk about it. 

An ordinary friend is a visitor just like others,

A genuine friend opens the refrigerator taking the food by himself.

An ordinary friend thinks that the friendship has already ended after quarrelling.

A genuine friend understand that the earnest friendship is established only after fighting.

A genuine friend understand that the earnest friendship is established only after fighting.

A genuine friend expect that he can forever accompany in your side!

Choosing your own future maturely.No matter what kind of friend you are dealing with, cherich them in your mind. Perhaps he will enter the shop front, cross through the living room, pass through the kitchen, then arrive at the bedroom?