The Volume of Love 

  Be tolerant when making delimitation for love, so that to reserve the right of yearning all types of  nice encounters in life .
        Let's aknowledge that are all love, whether transient meeting or long entanglement; whether regreting meeting too late or affectionating well ends; whether conflict with pouring great emotion or harmony with petty quarrel . Every living one's love experience is not a still monument, but a floating river . When we look backwards, we can't deny or make  the other side to deny any flow,  affluent or spray .

 I don't believe one can only love once, or must love many times in life . Frequency can not explain the problem . The volume of love is the capacity of one's spirit . If you are a deep valley, then one time's love is like a river, many times' is as many sprays. If you are a shoal, love once means a tricklet, love many times are just many bubbles .

One's love experience is not only the kind and enmity between he/she and one or more opposite sex, but also the total feeling of the whole world of opposite sex .

Love is not a freezing point in life, it is a flowing river . There might be great torrent in this river, but there must be subdued flowsheet, there might be obvious fairway, but there are also streams and undercurrents . Besides, the clouds in the sky and the scenery on the banks will be reflected on the river, the wind and rain in the evening will blew waves or sprays . Let's aknowledge, what this is all about constituent of the river, which together make up the beautiful love scenery in our life .

Love are all nice, whether transient or permanent . Even the resultless favor between two stranger opposite sexes, a staring without eyes blinking, the obscurity excitement, the nameless sorrow, all the above are also nice . Because the heart who can feel all these is young, after all . If there is no encounter or expectation for encounter in life, how boring it will be . 

One of the preconditions of life charm is that the possible of new love always open to you, even if you do not carry it out . If there will be no new clouds fewing in your love sky, if the world of opposite sex do not have any new attraction for you, how dull your life will be ?

Do not judge ife by victory or defeat, and do not judge love so .

Most love in the reality are failure, either helpless of failing to be well ends, or boredom of the failure of well ends . However, helpless leaves permanent yearn, boredom activize new pursuit . Are not these successful of love itself ? When all goes to all, love is surperior over successful and lost . Love is the most beautiful dream in life, can you name a dream with success or failure ? 

Love is blind, it seems one disgrace can cover hundred, as long as the two in love agree in taste and temperament . Love is bright both in eyes and mind, it is really one disgrace can cover hundred, as far as the love is deep enough and last for long .

One love's lifecycle  can be long or short, but there must be a shortest limitation, which is a quality warrant for love . If less than this limitation, no matter how heat between two, it will  just be temporal indulgence, but cannot be called love .