The first five things to do now that you’re engaged to be married.Unless you're planning a long engagement, once the fuss about your wedding announcement has died down you need to start thinking about just how and when you want to marry. No one is expecting you to sort out all the details in a matter of days, but you do need to think about a few basics if you're to have the wedding of your dreams. These are the main things to consider: Decide on a wedding date Do you see yourself as a summer bri