This year started off normal. I spent January touring different apartments. I wasnt in love with my old place, and I was in a position to move upso I ran with it. While signing my new lease on February 13th, I superstitiously joked Should I be concerned about signing a year lease on Friday the 13th? Thats about when 2009 stopped being a normal year Within ten days my girlfriend was diagnosed with cancer. It turned our world upside down. She stopped working and started spending a lot of tim