1.When you fall in love with a man, do not think to be a little reserved. Just tell him you love him. Sometimes a man also has vanity, so your confession will bring him to the highest point of confidence. 

 2 If you don’t love him any longer, tell him your feeling in the most direct way. Do not consider how fragile his heart is, because the self-esteem of a man is more important than the hurt of love.

3. If you are in love with each other, you should trust him. Whether he supports or not, tell him what you are thinking. Every man hopes his woman to count on him.

 4.Save him face in front of his friends. For a man, face is above all things, so don’t mind being a little woman in front of others. You should know that a little woman is all spoilt by a man.    

5. Don’t turn off his computer directly while he is playing games, no matter how urgent is the thing. You had better hug him gently, and whisper your needs in his ear, because a man is crazier about computer games than a series of wonderful soap opera which you want to watch.

6. Like a woman, a man is also upset for a few days of a month. At that moment, don’t ask what’s going wrong with him, and you just stay by his side doing what you should do.  

7.Don’t ask him why he doesn’t bring you with him when he goes out drinking and playing cards with his friends. Man all hopes to be a kite. Let him fly as long as the lines are in your hands.

8. Man is always lazy and silly. Though he loves you, he will not rack him mind to please you. What you could do is to give him a lead at suitable time, because man sometimes needs a sudden blow from woman.

 9.No matter how strong he looks, he’s still a child in the bones. It doesn’t take effect to shout at him when he has no self-restraint. The most effective way is to go crazy with him. After both of you calm down , tell him softly that you love him.　　

10. Man is reluctant to admit his mistakes. Making a concession at the moment he is aware of his fault he will be very grateful to you.

Understanding a man means to regard him as your husband, your lover, your brother, your friend, your father, and your child. Love him, so don’t give him burden; let him have his own space as well as yourself. You should know when to stay by his side and when to let him stay alone; when to protect him, when to stay behind him. Love him as you love yourself; help him attain his happiness, then he will make you happy.