We decided to find out from some women what they find most annoying in men. One lady says she hates a man who is too weak and too submissive. “A man has to be firm and resolute no matter how much he loves a woman. Some men go to the extent of crying when women they love are not cooperating.”
That is absolute non-sense. It annoys me. I also hate men who are too submissive and are ready to do anything for women. This does not mean that I do not want a sensitive man who is open about his feelings, but it means that I want a man to be his own person, think for himself and claim what he wants from a relationship.”
Women hate a stalker. “I cannot tolerate a man who likes to follow me. I like those who have the guts to approach and talk to me”. Women hate a man who monitors her movement or who pesters her. “Imagine your husband calling you up every 15 minutes, when you are very busy in the office. Regardless of how much a man loves me, this can be irritating, as I always like a man to give me a breathing space.”
Men who indulge so much in alcohol put women off. “Everything should have a limit. But some men just never believe in limits. They make drinking a habit and cannot live without it. Alcohol addiction will be the first thing that will drive me away from any man”.
They hate dominant men. “I hate men who always want things to be carried out as they wish. Some men do not allow women to lead even when it’s obvious that those women can lead better. Some men derive joy in suppressing their partners and it’s not good.
Women naturally are more emotionally inclined than men. But some men are more moody and emotional than women. One moment they are happy and the very next they become angry beasts. It is very difficult to predict how they would react and behave to situations. I will never prefer such men”.
Women hate womanizers, men who go for anything on skirt even when they have preferred, and better behaved women as either girlfriends or wives.
We also gathered that women hate men who show insensitivity towards their feelings, men who boast about their wealth and material acquisitions, men who do not have time for their partners but prefer spending all their time in pursuit of money.
Other factors that women generally do not like in men are arrogance, lies, self-centeredness manipulative attitude, impatience while driving, bad mouth, etc. women want men who know how to behave with a woman.
They hate men who abuse women or use foul language. A man who knows what and how to speak to a woman will be sought after.
Further, women will also go for confident and charismatic men.
So if you want to attract any woman, ask yourself if you have one of the traits that women dislike in a man. Do something positive about it and your dream woman will be yours.
No human being is perfect. There are some bad habits which every human being is indulging in, but these habits should never be out of limits.