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MSN Health posted an article about 5 myths of sex after 50. I picked the two most relevant that I thought would work well here and if you would like to see the other three visit the link at the bottom of the page. I still have quite some time before I have to worry about these myths. For those that are there…enjoy.

Myth #2: You’re too old to worry about STDs
Just because the risk of pregnancy is gone after menopause doesn’t mean you’re in the clear when it comes to having unprotected sex. Sexually transmitted diseases can be passed from partner to partner at any age and aren’t merely something younger generations need to worry about. According to Centers for Disease Control and Prevention, 23 percent of the total diagnoses of HIV in the past year were in men and women who were 45 or older. Overall, about 10 percent of all people with AIDS in the U.S. are age 50 and older. And that’s not all there is to watch out for—herpes, HPV, Chlamydia, and other ailments are all surprisingly common in this age group. So make sure to use condoms and consider both getting tested before you jump into action.

Myth #4: Sex should feel the same as it did when you were younger
It’s a fact of life: Sex is going to feel different as you age. Post-menopausal women lubricate less, which can make sex uncomfortable. Men over 50 may find that their erections are not as firm or frequent as they were when they were younger. This is all normal, and in no way means you can’t enjoy yourself by making some adjustments. Consider getting a water-based lubricant (many are available at drugstores) to help out where nature has left off. Men, see a doctor to find out if Viagra or a similar medication will give you the boost you may need. But products and prescriptions are not the only solutions. When the action’s lagging, consider switching from intercourse to oral sex or asking each other, “What can I do to make you feel good?” Keep the lines of communication open, and you’ll easily adapt to your body’s changes and those of your partner.

5 Myths About Sex After 50

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