Have you ever thought you were being utterly clear in your communication with someone - and yet somehow they still managed to misunderstand, get the wrong message or completely miss your point? Or have you ever gone out of your way to do something nice for someone but they just didn't seem that appreciative or thankful? The likely cause? You're just not speaking the same language! What languages am I talking about? Gary Chapman calls them the "Five Languages of Love", and while these are indeed