I think we can admit we’ve all been there…you are lying in bed thinking about how wonderful it will be to finally get a good night’s rest. As your eyes begin to shut and your mind begins its drift to la-la land, you are startled awake by a hand creeping across your boob or a fuzzy leg being thrown over your mid-section. It’s not on your mind, but your partner is sure in the mood for some heat between the sheets. Some of us simply succumb knowing it will be easier to give in than stir the emotion