2.    No matter how old you are, never treat your marriage casually because of the urgency from your relatives. Marrying is different from playing cards, for you will have to suffer a lot if you want to reshuffle.

3.    There is no right and wrong in the matter of love. Usually it’s your own faults which dissatisfy him or her that make they leave you. Anyway the days you spent together are still “Auld Lang Syne” when looking back. There certainly exist some despicable love cheaters who speak flowery to deceive others into sleeping with them. Of course this kind of persons is still of the few.

4.    It doesn’t matter to be in love with someone whose living habits are quite different from yours. But when you step into the level of marriage, think twice. Make sure that you can tolerate the difference of each other for a very long time.

5.    Only when you yourself are a virgin do you have the right to demand your girlfriend to be a maiden.

6.    Don’t sleep with others as you wish. You are sure to regret when you you’re your true Mr. Right in the future who accidentally requires a one-to-one relationship.

7.    Keep pursuing your love despite your inferior appearance. Appearance is only a temporary impression and which decide contrarily are your characters. I’ve met so many handsome boys dating with plain girls and vice versa.

8.    The high rate of divorce at least shows one advantage and one disadvantage. The advantage is people aren’t trapped by feudalism anymore and have a more humanistic notion. The disadvantage is their hastiness to marriage. Since you haven’t considered it thoroughly, why got married?

9.    A woman who can merely read is a dictionary which may only be looked up when needed. A woman who can only make herself up is a vase which will be rebarbative when being seen for some time. Proper clothing and makeup are necessities to a woman although you can still be called a woman without them. You still need reading to find yourself more merit of life.

10. Hasty to marry is already an error, so hasty to divorce will add another. Try to tolerant before you can’t bear each other any longer.

11. We often hear others talking about the so-called a masculine man or a feminine woman. But do you truly know what it means? In my view, a masculine man should be generous and brave as a feminine woman tender and considerate.

12. What’s charm? Charm isn’t equal to beauty for men will not only be attracted by beautiful women but elegant and graceful ones. So don’t worry about your appearance.

13. First love is always nice and unforgettable. But why? It’s not because his or her superior appearance. Nor is for you’ve lost it. The reason is that your heart is pure when you first begin to love someone with your whole heart and soul. But the love after that is not so pure. Purity is the most precious thing in the world. Perhaps the only WHOM you long for is HER.

14. Most people are a bit childish when they first love, so most first love is tend to fail in spite of a small part of successful examples. Since every one likes original binding, you ought to aim at an unmarried target.

15. It’s true with many men that they are likely to be dissolute when becoming rich. While this kind of men is always not so good even if they are penniless.

16. Is there truly eternal love? Of course there is! Why most people don’t believe forever love? Because they aren’t able to find the most suitable person for them who is also the destined one. Why aren’t they able to find? Do you think it easy to get your most accidental and suitable meeting in the boundless huge crowds? You may be able to meet your destined partner when you are forty years old, but will you wait for this to happen till you are forty? In most cases, you have to marry at you twenties if you fail to find the very HIM or HER. Then it means you have to give up even if you finally find them at your thirties or forties. That is the very tragedy of life.

17. To fall in love with a clever person is usually full of happiness for they are always humorous and talkative. But there at the same time exists crisis because they are likely to cease to be faithful. To have a love affair with the frank one is reassuring but at the contrary lacks of surprise.

18. Some people complain that they can’t find the right person from time to time. It doesn’t matter once or twice but you have to criticize yourself if you do this now and then. Try to find out whether there is something wrong with yourself and if not perhaps you have to take a good look at your own taste and ask yourself why it’s always you who meet those wrong persons?

19. It’s said that once a man cease to be faithful, nothing can bring his heart back to you. But isn’t it also the same with a woman? There is only physical but no psychological difference between men and women.

20. It you truly love someone, you will be willing to change yourself for him or her. When he or she pays no attention to your likes and dislikes and behaves at their own will, it means they don’t really love you. So if you don’t care for him or her as they don’t for you, it shows you don’t love each other so much. And never take it for granted that you are born to be careless or comfort and cheat yourself to believe he is a careless person. For once meeting his true love, even a coward will become brave. It is as simple as that a carless person will turn to be considerate.

21. A silent love with the knowing acquiescence of both parts may be the best. For the two may be enjoying the soft glances, the passionate feelings or the tizzy from the touching of figures. Once it is uttered, all the above behaviors may be ones that are allowed and short of excitement or expectation, which at last makes you numbed with them.

22. “Anyone will at last find one to match him.” which is just used to describe the marriage. It is not true with the love actually. An excellent person, despite of his sex, will meet several suitable persons. So the stories of vicissitudes of life take place everyday throughout the world.

23. There are two categories of lovely women. One is maternity women who are able to take good care of men. A man will feel himself strongly loved when with this kind of women. The other is sister-like women. They are usually timid and shy and dependent on men. A man’s personality is likely to appear when with this kind of women. For example when it comes to catch the mice or carry the heavy things, a man will always tend to protect his own sister-like woman. There is also a third kind of women who neither knows how to be considerate nor is willing to nestle to men. Maybe they are the most unwelcome for men.

24. Not only will the dissolute men have extra-marital affair but the upright ones may have as well. So when your husband becomes loyal to you once, don’t sentence your marriage to death forever. Try to give him a second chance to make some repentance and remedy for you. It really costs you both a lot to build up your love for several decades, so don’t hold a grudge on his accidental betray for a life time. Spent the rest of your life together if he is able to atone for his own wrongdoings.

25. It is always said that there is an unknown woman who supports behind a successful man. Then does it also mean that there is a woman who likes making trouble of nothing behind an unsuccessful man?

26. What is romance? Is it sending flowers? Is it rambling together in the drizzle? Or is it standing in front of her house for a long time? If there is true love between the two, they will feel the romance even with nothing to do. Otherwise, even if they could date on the moon, it would not be romantic at all.

27. Learn to look at your lover with understanding and appreciative eye. Don’t name your care after control and always regard your control as right behaviors.

28. There will be no contradiction between two childish persons. Nor will there be between two mature ones. But there will be a great headache when childishness meets maturation.

29. Some kind of women requires their boyfriends to pamper them when they are dating, even after marriage do they ask their husbands to spoil them. But they forget how to complete their own duties. We can only say that such kind of women doesn’t really know what love is.

30. A mature man ignores the past, a wise man lets off the now, a generous man pays no attention to the future.