Many people are plagued with great shame and remorse when it comes to fantasies, especially the ones they see as "perverse." However, according to the April 25th report on Fox News, educationalists psychotherapist for sexual health think highly on sexual fantasy, and encourage people have sexual fantasy.
One major study by London-based psychotherapist Brett Kahr, which involved more than 23,000 sexual fantasies, found the most popular phantasms are those involving exhibitionism, seduce, and third-party sex. When it comes to gender differences, our sexual fantasies are more alike than similar. Still, differences do exist. Male sexual fantasies are more likely to focus on specific sexual acts and sexual organs, and involve more visual content. Women’s sexual fantasies, on the other hand, are more likely to involve familiar partners and to include more description. “To her, it is a beautiful erotic movie with a romantic atmosphere, an excellent partner, a wonderful story and warm affection in climax. If every sexual love can be so wonderful, gaining climax is not difficult at all.”
Ivan, a special sexual specialist of Fox News said sexual fantasy brought a lot of benefits. For example, when you lack real sexual life, fantasy is A-list substitutes. It can bring zest in your sexual life, help you to get rid of sexual anxiety, improve sexual confidence. What’s more, without cost and limitation of time and place, couples can awake their passion and come to climax together by sexual fantasy.
“In fact, fantasy in all of its forms, including those involving imagined or real people, introduces variety and excitement. Both of these are important components in keeping your actual sex life hot. It also helps to counter the boredom that can come with a sexually monotonous, long-term relationship. If it is not against ethic and social moral, couples should display fantasy in their sexual life, ”Ivan said.