婚姻、爱情与自由[ 2007-01-04 09:23 ]You are asking, "Is it possible to be married and to be free?"If you take marriage non-seriously, then you can be free. If you take it seriously, then freedom is impossible. Take marriage just as a game -- it is a game. Have a little sense of humor, that it is a role you are playing on the stage of life; but it is not something that belongs to existence or has any reality -- it is a fiction.But people are so stupid that they even start taking fiction for reality. I ha