This is a guest post by Alex Fayle of SomedaySyndrome. In one of my favorite fantasy books, Dealing with Dragons by Patricia C. Wrede, the main character Cimorene finds herself about to be married off to a Prince she cant stand. Eventually she finds herself in a conversation with a talking frog who asks her what she is going to do about the situation. Cimorene tells him about all the people shes talked to and complained to. He replies with: I didnt ask you what youd said about it. I asked what y