原文: 人的一生会遇上的四个人

人生就是为了找寻爱的过程，每个人的人生都要找到四个人。
           第一个是自己,
           第二个是你最爱的人，
           第三个是最爱你的人，
           第四个是共度一生的人.

           首先会遇到你最爱的人，然後体会到爱的感觉；
           因为了解被爱的感觉，所以才能发现最爱你的人；
           当你经历过爱人与被爱，学会了爱，才会知道什么是你需要的，
           也才会找到最适合你，能够相处一辈子的人。
           但很悲哀的，在现实生活中，这三个人通常不是同一个人；
           你最爱的，往往没有选择你；
           最爱你的，往往不是你最爱的；
           而最长久的，偏偏不是你最爱也不是最爱你的，
           只是在最适合的时间出现的那个人。
           你，会是别人生命中的第几个人呢？
           没有人是故意要变心的，他爱你的时候是真的爱你，
           可是他不爱你的时候也是真的不爱你了，
           他爱你的时候没有办法假装不爱你；
           同样的，他不爱你的时候也没有办法假装爱你 。
           当一个人不爱你要离开你，
           你要问自己还爱不爱他，
           如果你也不爱他了，千万别为了可怜的自尊而不肯离开；
           如果你还爱他，你应该会希望他过得幸福快乐，
           希望他跟真正爱的人在一起，绝不会阻止，
           你要是阻止他得到真正的幸福，就表示你已经不爱他了，
           而如果你不爱他，你又有什么资格指责他变心呢？
           爱不是占有，
           你喜欢月亮，不可能把月亮拿下来放在脸盆里，
           但月亮的光芒仍可照进你的房间。
           换句话说，你爱一个人，也可以用另一种方式拥有，
           让爱人成为生命里的永恒回忆，
           如果你真爱一个人，就要爱他原来的样子─爱他的好，也爱他的坏：
           爱他的优点，也爱他的缺点，
           绝不能因为爱他，就希望他变成自己所希望的样子，
           万一变不成就不爱他了。
           真正爱一个人是无法说出原因的，
           你只知道无论何时何地、心情好坏，你都希望这个人陪著你；
           真正的感情是两人能在最艰苦中相守，也就是没有丝毫要求。
           毕竟，感情必须付出，而不是只想获得；
           分开是一种必然的考验，
           如果你们感情不够稳固，只好认输，
           真爱是不会变成怨恨的。
           两人在谈情说爱的时候，
           最喜欢叫对方发誓，许下承诺我们为什么要对方发誓，
           就是因为我们不相信对方，我们根本不相信情人，
           而这些山盟海誓又很不切实际：
           海枯石烂、地老天荒，都不能改变我对你的爱!
           明知道海不会枯、石不会烂、地不会老、天不会荒；
           就算会，也活不到那时候。
           许下诺言的时候千万注意，不要许下可以实现的诺言，
           最好是承诺做不到的事，
           反正做不到的，随便说说也不要紧，
           请记住：”不可能实现的诺言最动人”
           在爱情里，说的是一套，做的是另一套；
           讲的人不相信，听的人也不相信。
           你呢？找到了第几个？
           茫茫人海中，你遇见了谁？谁又遇见了你？

译文: the four persons you will encounter in your life

life is in the process of seek love,every one in the life will find four persons

one is yourself

the second is the person who you love most 

the third is the person who love you most 

the fourth is the person who share lifetime 

firstly you will encounter the man you love most,then experience the feeling of love;

because of understand the feeling of being loved,so you can find out the person who love you most;

when you experience loving others and being loved,learn loving,become to know what is you need,also to find out adapting to you,the person who can mix in cradle to grave.

But very sad,in the realize life,the three man usually is not the same man;

the person you love most,sometimes do not select you;

the person love you most,sometimes is not you love most;

but the longest,unluckily is not you love mostly also is not love you mostly,

only is the person who appear at the most adapt time.

you,will become which person of others' life?

nobody change one's heart on purpose,when he love you is truely love

but when she don't love you is really she do not love you,

when she love you is she can not pretend to not love you;

alike, when she do not love you she can not pretend to love you

when one do not love you want to leave you,

you should ask yourself whether you love her,

if you do not love him,isnot willing to leave  for the pity of self-respect;

if you still love him,you should hope him to live happily,

hope him to live with the person who loved her really,do not prevent extremely,

love is not occupy,

you love moon,it is impossible to put the moon to the washbasin.

But the ray of lights of the moon still can shine to your room.

in another words,you love one person,still can use another method,

let the lover become the  forever memory of the life,

if you love one person,you should love the original manner of him.love his good,also love his bad;

love his excellence,also love his disadvantage,

do not because love him,then hope him to become the manner of

but if you donot love him,what qualification would you reprehension to him to change heart?

really love one person can not tell the reason,

you know whatever whereever,in a good humor or bad humor,you will wish this man accompany with you;

real sensation is the two persons can guard each other in the trial,without any request.

after all,sensation should pay out,is not seek out;

disjoin is a necessary trial,

if your sensation is not steady,only to  give the battle,

true love is not become hate.

when the two man amorism each other,

the most like way is to pledge opposite,allow  to promise why we pledge to side,

this is because we do not believe opposite,we do not believe sweet heart rootly,but these mountain like ocean like promise is unrealistic;when the seas run dry and the rocks crumble,the ground become old the sky become shortage,it can not change  the love i make to you!

it is conscious that the sea will not dull,the stone will not rot,the ground will not become old,the sky will not shortage;

even if it will,it can not live to that time,

it should be attention that when promise,

do not promise the faith come true,

it had better promise the things can not undertaking,

it can not finish in reverse,it is not never mind to say it voluntariness,

please remember:"it is winningness to carry out the faith."

in the love ,say is one suit,do is another suit;

the person says it do not believe,the person listens also do not believe.

what about you?you find which one?

in the vast human sea,you encounter who?and who encounter you?