当你来到这里的时候你有可能会有很多感触,通过一些文章你甚至可能下定决心做一些很难做的决定。
当你看到一本励志的书,你的心会震撼,你会反思自己,反思自己的行为。
但是过了一段时间有多少人会按照书或博客上写得真正去做呢?

酷啡兄写过一篇文章叫做今天你有所行动了吗?,他提到,我们都有自己喜欢的博客,每天都期待他们能上传新文章,看的时候也是感触颇深,但是看完了以后呢?还是原来干嘛就干嘛!”更甚至如果出了什么事,我们的第一反应就是打开相当的博客(想想我们依赖的博客——keso,可能吧,时寒冰……),看一下他们是怎么说的,都没有了自己的思想。
其实光是知道对你一点帮助也没有,而且这样的话你现在阅读这些文章的时间不是白费了吗?
通过与一些读者的沟通,我发现他们会说 “ 我真佩服你能一直给自己找动力 ” “羡慕你能一直坚持学习,我知道我也要提高自己,但是现在真的没动力了” “ 我不知道我该做什么”
在这里, 我想告诉大家的是: 通向成功的路只有一条,那就是行动,如果你行动了可能有50%成功的可能性,但是如果你没有行动那你永远找不到方向,与其浪费时间费口舌,还不如跨出一小步让自己行动起来。
说到这里,大家肯定会问,我知道我该行动,但是我不知道该如何行动,根据自己的经验我总结出了很简单的3步曲。
1- 寻找: 我发现很多人都不知道自己要该干什么,一开始就有很明确的目标或梦想的人真的很少。如果你现在不知道你要该干什么,没有关系,不要着急,因为现在我也不知 道自己明确的目标,我们的人生可能就是一系列的寻找自己所爱而循环的过程。但是值得注意的一点是你必须开始行动寻找自己的最爱,你可以从你目前已经有的模 糊的方向开始,你必须是在行动中才能寻找自己的最爱-行动的目标。
比如酷啡生活起航的时候,是出自一个很简单的想法,觉得它可以纪录自己的经历,可以作为一个倾诉的地方,但是经过一段时间的行动之后发现自己对写作很感兴 趣,可以用文字来表达自己的想法(^^当然还需要很长时间的锻炼了),你看,如果没有当初的行动,我可能永远也不知道自己还能写作。我的朋友中有特别喜欢 photoshop的,特别喜欢摄影的,其实这些都很好,你都可以从这些喜好开始,你现在可能不知道通过这些你将要达到的目标是什么,但是不要想得太多 了,开始行动起来。
2- 跨出一小步,哪怕是很小很小都没有关系。很多时候我们的行动坚持不了几天就失败的原因是我们太想在最短的时间内取得成果,要吃掉大象需要一口一口的吃,其实做事也是一样的。不要想着一下子就把事情做好,跨出一小步。
要学英语,每天抽半个小时让自己学习; 想要学好摄影,每个周末抽半天去户外;想提高自己的口才,每天抽半个小时练习,就算你周围只有你的狗在听,你也把它想像成是忠实的听众; 想要写博客,坚持每天下班以后写一篇文章,就算只有短短的两行字也没有关系。
3-坚持,重复: 实现世界上的任何事情或目标都没有捷径,能让我们达到目标的就是坚持、重复。 成功就是简单的事情重复做,重复的事情坚持做。一般来说你跨出一小步之后你要让它成为习惯,行为心理学研究表明:21天以上的重复会形成习惯;90天的重 复会形成稳定的习惯。即同一个动作,重复21天就会变成习惯性的动作;同样道理,任何一个想 法,重复21天,或者重复验证21次,就会变成习惯性想法,就像我们到中午了就吃饭、到晚上就睡觉的习惯一样。
所以当你跨出一小步,请你一定要重复至少一个月。
说了这么多,现在要告诉大家的是,请你放掉现在正在阅读的博客,离开让你分心的电脑或书,然后开始行动起来。对,就是从今天,就是从现在开始。
引用自:酷啡生活——停止阅读,开始行动
译文:
Stop Reading ,Act Immediately
When you come here ,you may be emotional and even you may make up your mind to make some difficult decisions throuh some articles.
When you meet an encouraging book,you will be shocked then think of yourself altogether with your action.
However ,there is few to do it as what is written in the book or the blog after a period of time.

Brother Cooffee has written an article called Have You Acted Yet Today. He metions we all have our loved blogs and expect them to upload some new articles every day. Though we are in deep emotion while reading , how we will do it after reading is still as the way in the past .What's worse, our first response is to open the corresponding blog ( thinking of the trustful blogs-keso ,maybe,Shihanbing) to see what the writer's opinion is without our own thought when there is something wrong.
In fact,only knowing helps you little . In addition, isn't it a waste of time to read such the articles?
I find they will say "I really admire you can always give yourself propulsion ","I admire you can learn all the time and I know I should also improve myself but I have no power indeed" and "I have no idea about what to do"during the communication with some readers .
Here,I wan to tell everyone there is only one way to success.That is action. You have 50% chance to suceed if you take action.But you'll find no direction if you don't take any action .You would rather step forward a little to act than waste time and words.
Mentioning it here,you must say" I know I should take action but I don't know how to act ".Therefore, I summarize three steps on this point according to my experience.
1-look for: I find most people have no clear goal or dream at the very beginning and don't know what they should do . If you still don't know now , never mind and take it easy because I also have no idea about my clear goal .Our lives may be a series of recycling courses of looking for our likes but the one we must pay attention to is we must start to take action to look for our favorite .You can start with the present ambiguous direction that you have had now and you can find your favorite-the goal of your action only in the course of action.
For example ,it is a very simple idea that it can record my own experience and be used as a place where I can show the true feelings that makes Cooffee Life to start. However, after the action for some time,I get to know I am very interested in writing and I can express my idea through words.(Of course,it needs a long time to practice,too.) You must get clear that I 'll never discover I can write if I didn't take action . Among my friends , some like photoshop very much and some like photograhy very much , which are very good. You can start with what you like . Although you may know nothing about what the coming goal is after your action,don't think too much.Act immediately .
2- Step forward a little ,No matter how small it is ! On most occasions,why we fail to keep our action is we are so eager to gain the achievement in a short time . The way to eat an elephant is by taking one small bite at a time. ,it's the same principle for action.Don't think you can do it well in a short time. What you need is a small step forward.
To learn English well, you need to learn for half an hour every day.To learn photograhy well, you need to be outside for half a day each weekend.To improve your eloquence, you need to practice for half an hour every day, even if there is only a dog listening.You can take it as your loyal listener.To write the blog,you need to go on writing an article after work every day ,even if it 's only with two lines.
3-Persist,repeat: There is no shortcut for realization of anything or any goal in the world,and what helps us achieve the goal is persistence and repeatation .Success means repeating the simple thing and persisting in what is repeated.Generally, you should keep it as a habit after a small step forward.The behavior psychology shows the repeatation lasting for over 21 days will become habital and the repeataton for 90 days will be a stable habit. That is to say, for the same behavior, to repeat it in 21 days will make it a habital behavior.Similarly, any thought that is repeated in 21 days or proved 21 times will become a habital thougt, which is the same habit as having lunch at noon and going to bed at night.
Thus , please repeat it at least in one month after a small step forward.
Having mentioned so much,what I 'll tell you now is to throw away the blog that you are reading and leave the computer or book that makes you unable to concentrate then take action at once.Right,it is today that you begain.
cited :Cooffee Life——Stop Reading ,Start to Act