常常听身边的好朋友抱怨怎么遇不到好的男人呢？我们不知道男人们是怎么想的，他们想找的是什么样的女人呢？也许连他们自己也说不清。有感于这些写了这以下的内容，没什么意思，只是想鼓励我们拥有好女人品质的朋友们坚持自己，相信一定会遇到对的合适自己的男人的。也想给男人们一点建议：什么样的女人是男人值得一辈子去珍惜的女人？
1.自重自爱的女人
在现在如此快节奏的时代，一夜情已经被当成一种另类的时尚。
人们到底要求的是什么，仅仅是生理的需求吗？人做为比动物高一等级的生物，不应该随着时代的发展却进化到如此的地步。一个好的女人在遇到自己喜欢的男人时，应该是先相处、了解对方是否合适自己以后，随着感情的加深而顺其自然的发生的。一个随随便便就和男人上床的女人，试问男人们，这样的女人你们敢娶回家吗？所以当你们遇到自重自爱的女人时应该好好的把握，比竟这样的女人已经太少了。
2.有责任感的女人
在现代只强调男人有责任感的时代，女人其实也应该有责任感。
很多女人是为了权，为了利，为了钱，为了势和男人在一起的。她们只不过把感情和肉体当做交换自己想得到的一种工具而已。这样的女人今天为了某些东西和你在一起，那么改天也会为了得到其他的东西而离开你的。如此不负责任的女人你敢要吗？好女人应该是对自己对别人都有责任心的，在金钱面前有自控能力。
3.有思想的女人
现代社会压力越来越大，男人在外打拼其实已经承受了很多很大的压力。一个有思想的女人应该能为男人分担一些压力，至少可以有自己的事业和人生价值，并不是一味的依附于男人。女人会在社会生活里和压力里学到很多东西，使自己历练的越来越成熟，有韵味，也更坚强和勇敢。有思想的女人在金钱面前有自控能力，是的谁不爱钱呀，可是并不是有了钱就有了一切，你能买到真爱吗？感情和婚姻如果只是建立在金钱上靠的住吗？当富贵不在的时候她也就随之而去了。所以有思想的女人明白自己要的是什么，而不是一味的追逐名利和金钱。
4.疼爱男人也疼爱自己的女人
不会疼爱自己的女人，男人也不会疼爱你的。很多女人在爱情中为了所爱的人付出很多很多，却忽视了自己的存在，到头了却换来男人的离弃。从某种角度上来说男人的变心是女人给惯出来的。男人永远是充满好奇的，再多的爱到最后男人只会觉得是应该的，时间久了都不会珍惜的。所以聪明的女人是先疼爱自己，爱惜自己的身体，疼爱自己容貌，时时更新变化自己的外在，让男人对自己一直感兴趣。遇到这样的女人，男人想不疼都不行。
5.有自己的空间，也给男人足够空间的女人
这样的女人有自己的朋友，当不开心的时候可以和朋友倾诉，不一定要把自己的烦恼都抛给自己的另一半，正所谓旁观者清。也有自己的异性好友，但是她非常清楚和他的关系，不需要你的担心，她会很清楚的把握界限的。她会给你足够的空间，你有你的自由，她信任你。在事业上支持你。
6.上得厅堂，下得厨房
虽然是老调重谈了，可是不管社会如何的发展，男人们还是希望自己的老婆在外是光鲜亮丽的，回到家后就有一桌可口的饭菜。但是对于女人来说要做到这一点实在是很不容易的。所以女人们加油吧！这样的女人很关心你，照顾你。当然在外的时候也会给足你面子。
7.用心爱你的女人
她不一定是最漂亮的女人，不一定是最有气质的，不一定是最聪明的，但她一定是最爱你的。她会在你生病的时候守侯照顾你；在你烦恼时听你发泄抱怨，给你鼓励；在你需要她的时候给你无私的关怀，和最大的帮助。也许她有一点唠叨，可那是因为爱你！
男人们当你们遇到拥有以上特点的女人时，请你们好好的珍惜她。不一定所有的特征都满足，挑出你最在意的3点，当她满足了这3点时，她就是你最值得一辈子去珍惜的人。
译文:
Seven Kinds of Women of Whom Men Should Care
I often hear my good friends complaining why they cannot come across good men. We have no ideas about how men thinking of this or what kinds of women do they dream of. Maybe even themselves cannot express clearly. On these thoughts I wrote down the followings , I have no special meaning and just want to encourage our women friends who bear the qualities of good women to remain themselves as they are, and have confidence that they can meet the right man. And also, I`d like to give some suggestions to men which include what kinds of women deserve their treasure for a lifetime.
1. Women who have high self-esteem
It has been taken as a unique fashion in the so fast pace time to sleep and make love with strangers.
What is the real requirement of mankind? Only physical desire? Human being, a more advanced living species than animals, should not degenerate to such an awkward level. When a good woman meet her favorable man, she should live to understand him and make sure whether he is the right one in her life, and then let everything develop with the deepening of love. You may ask men who dare to marry a woman who makes love with men casually? So when you come across the woman who has a high self-esteem you should grasp her tightly, after all, women of this kind are too limited now.
2. Women who are responsible
In this age which only emphasizes the responsibility of man actually women should take responsibility as well.
There are many women who choose to stay with her man only because of his power, his money, and the benefit of living with him. They take their affection and physical body as a tool to get what they want. Women of this kind stay with you for some certain things and may leave you for other things another day. Do you dare to marry such irresponsible women? Good women are responsible to others and themselves and can control themselves before money.
3. Women who use their own minds.
The pressure from modern times becomes increasingly pressing, and men have already shouldered lots of great burdens in the outside world. A women who uses her own mind should spare some burden for her man, at least she has her own cause and life value and does not only cling to her man. Women can learn much from social experiences and pressures and becomes more and more mature, special, firm and brave. Women who use their own mind can control themselves before money. It is true that nobody hates money, but it is not the same that money means everything. Can you buy true love? Is it reliable that affections and marriages set on money? You know, she will leave as his worth used up. So women who use their own mind know what do they want and not only pursue fame and money.
4. Women who love their man as well as themselves
Woman who does not love themselves men will not love her as well. Many women devote too much for their beloved men, but neglect their own existence, only to be deserted by their men. In some perspective, men are coddled by their women to be unfaithful. Men are always curious, and no matter how many love given to them, they only feel it should be like that and will not treasure it for a long time term. So wise women are first love themselves , love their body, love their appearance, and change their looks frequently, so as to make their men be interested of them. Man cannot help to love women of this kind when they came across them.
5. Women who have their own space and give space to men as well
Woman of this kind has her own friends and will chat with them when she is not happy and does not always throw all the unhappy things to her half one. This is the so-called the outsider sees clearer. She has her own male friends but she is very clear of the relations with him, so you do not worry about this because she can control the degree. She will also give you enough space so that you have your own freedom and enjoy the trust from her. And also she can help you with your course.
6. Women who are noble enough before your guests and useful enough in the kitchen.
Although it is talked for a long time, no matter how advanced our society develops, men still hope their wives are bright in public and cook tasty meals at home. But it is too hard for women to achieve this. So just come on women! Women of this kind care you very much and win you enough reputations outside.
7. Women who love you by their hearts.
She maybe not the most beautiful women, nor the most quality one, nor the smartest one, but she must the one who loves you the most. She will take care of you when you are ill; she will encourage you when you are complaining; she will help you selflessly when you need her and gives you the most help. Perhaps she is just a bit rattling, but that is all because she loves you.
Man, please treasure women of the above kinds when you meet her. Maybe she does not meet all the qualities, but I suggest you choose three ones of the above qualities that you mind the most, if she meet the three, then she is the one who deserves your care for a lifetime.