每一件事情都是有原因的么?

读者: 1787    发布时间: 2007

原文: Does everything happen for a reason?

Whats your opinion? Does everything happen for a reason?

Everyone has probably gone through something hoping that 'everything happens for a reason'. No matter if it's someone that has gone through a hard time, or someone that had something great happen to them.

What do you believe??

I believe that everything happens for a reason, and no matter if it's a hard time or a great time, that you should just except what happened because you can't go back and change it. For example: some people have hard times in their relationships. But from my experience it can do 1 of 2 things: Make the relationship stronger, or rip it apart. If you can't make it through the hard times with the person that you are with, then maybe it's not meant to be. If you can make it, just think how easy the great times will be.

With my relationship I have been through really hard times, and my experience only made the relationship stronger. And when things are going good, everything seems that much easier.

So what is your experience? What do you think? Have your hard times made your relationship stronger? This includes friends, family, boyfriend/girlfriend, wife/husband.

译文: 每一件事情都是有原因的么?

你的意见是什么?每件事情的发生都是有理由么?

每个人都可能经历一些事情,并希望每件事情都有一个理由。无论是否许多人都要经历一个困难的时期,或者许多人拥有一些对于他们来说很棒的事情。

你相信什么?

我相信每件事情的发生都会有一个理由,同时,无论它是否在困难时刻,或者很棒的时刻,你都应该将那些无法回头和改变的事情排除掉。例如,一些人在他们的人际关系方面有困难时期。但是,按照我的经验,在这种情况可以干一半的事情:使关系更加牢固,或者断开一部分。如果,你不能使它在你困难的时候和你的那些关系一起渡过,那么,也许它们就没有什么意义。如果你做到了,只是认为那将成为一个简单而伟大的时刻。

伴随着我的那些关系,陪伴我走过了我的每个艰难时期,同时,我的经验只是让教我把那些关系变的更牢固。当关系变好的时候,每件事看上去也会相对的更简单。

那么,你的经验是什么?你是怎么想的?在你的困难时刻你巩固你的关系网了么?这些包含朋友,家庭,男朋友,女朋友,妻子,丈夫。