Romantic love is a deep emotional, sexual and spiritual recognition and regard for the value of another person and relationship.
Sex and romance may seem inextricably linked, but the human brain clearly distinguishes between the two, according to a new study. The upshot: Love is the more powerful emotion.
Romantic love can generate many powerful feelings. It can provide a profound ecstasy, and a deep suffering when frustrated. To some people, romantic love is irrational. Romantic love can seem like an emotional storm.
All of us talk of love. Most of us have heard of romantic love. Few of us have felt romantic love. I say few because everyone does not fall in deep romantic love. For many of us it is simple relationship that goes little beyond friendship. But in romantic love the relationship is totally different. Such love gives great pleasure and immense pain after break-up. The pain may at times be so much that one may regret ever falling in romantic love. How it feels when we are in deep romantic love. We find everything about our partner romantic. Their talk, their walk, their smile and their laugh everything sounds good to us.
We try of various ways to please our partner. We go to a great extent to fulfill their desires and make them happy. This is a big motivator. Many people have achieved great heights in their life because they wanted to do something for their partner. That is why it said that behind every successful man there is a woman.
We feel highly confident and self-assured when we are in romantic love. It is considered an achievement. We feel that we have done something great.
We lose sense of reality. We live in a dream world most of the times. Our thoughts are always centered on our partner. This can be very dangerous in some cases. After the love disappears, it becomes very difficult to adjust with life again.
We become adventurous. Our mind finds way to be with our partner despite major obstacles. Our moral values may also change at times.
Our body undergoes hormonal changes. Our reproductive hormones increase and we are most of the times in a state of excitement.
We feel that we are one with our partner in all the ways. We become dependent upon them for getting pleasure and our earlier hobbies undergo change. This causes great ache after break- up.
I’d like to run away
From you,
But if you didn’t come
And find me …
I would die.
~ by Shirley Bassey ~
译文:
罗曼蒂克式的爱情，你体验过吗？
浪漫的爱情，是对一个人情感上、肉体上和精神上的高度认同，也是对另一方以及两人间关系的重视。
性爱和浪漫感觉上好像是紧密相连的，但人脑却能明确地区分出两者的区别，据最新研究，调查的结果是：较性而言，爱是更有力的情感。
浪漫的爱情可以产生很强烈的感觉。它既可以让你沉醉其中，当受挫时又会变成痛苦的煎熬。对一些人来说，浪漫的爱情是不理智的。浪漫的爱情也可以看成是情感风暴。
大家都在谈论爱情。大多数人都听过浪漫的爱情。几乎没有人体验过浪漫的爱情。我说几乎没有人体验过，因为大家都没有深深地感受过罗曼蒂克的爱。对我们大多数人说，它只是一种超出一点友情的简单的关系。但在浪漫的爱情中的感情是完全不同的。这种爱带来很愉悦的感觉，当然分手后会带来无尽的痛苦。这种痛苦有时会让人后悔自己坠入了激情的爱中。当我们沉醉在浪漫的爱情中时，那将会是什么样的感觉呢？我们认为对方所做一切都是浪漫的。他们的谈吐，他们走路的样子，他们的笑容，他们的笑，所有的所有对我们来说都是美好的。
我们用尽不同的方法来取悦我们的伴侣。我们极力去满足他们的欲望并让他们开心。这也是动力的源泉。许多人在一生中取得了很大的成就，就因为他们想为自己的伴侣做点什么。这也就是为什么有句话说，每个成功男人的背后都有一个女人。
当我们沉醉在浪漫的爱情中时，我们感到高度自信，也非常有成就感。我们自认为我们做了件伟大的事情。
我们忽视了现实。大多数时候，我们都处于理想状态。我们的思想总是围绕着对方转。很多时候，这种想法很危险。一旦爱消失了，我们就很难再适应生活了。
我们变得很爱冒险。除了最大的障碍，我们总要想方设法去迎合对方的想法。我们的道德价值观有时也会随之改变。
我们的体内荷尔蒙也在发生变化。我们体内荷尔蒙的不断增加，使我们大多数时候都出于兴奋状态。
我们感觉我们的伴侣一路与我们同在。我们变得依赖对方，觉得只有他们才能让我们获得快乐，但我们与此同时必须得作出牺牲改变一些习惯。这就让分手后造成巨大的痛。
我想大步跑开
离开你
但如果你不跟来
并找到我
我将会死去。。
文章由Shirley Bassey 所写