睡前阅读:建立纽带的成功经验

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原文: The Bedtime Reading: A Great Bonding Experience

Baby Bedtime ReadingAlthough it may sound like an outdated practice, the fact is that there are still many parents who spend time each night reading a bedtime story to their children. The fact is that there are many significant and meaningful benefits that can be realized through the very simple act of sharing a bedtime story with your child.

The Bonding Benefits of a Bedtime Story

One of the greatest benefits of the traditional bedtime story time is the fact that you will get a truly rare opportunity to spend what can only called quality time with your child. You will have a tremendous opportunity to bond with your child away from the hustle and bustle of day to day living.

The bottom line is that for many parents (and children as well) some of the fondest memories of a child growing up are those quiet times spent sharing a great story.

The Educational Benefits of a Bedtime Story

Another of the extremely important benefits of a bedtime story and of a bedtime story time is the educational benefit that can be derived from reading. The bottom line is that one of the best ways in which you can lay a solid educational foundation for your child is to read to your child beginning at a very early age.

Indeed, there is even a school of thought that there are some benefits to be derived (although not educational as such) to beginning reading to your child when he or she is a very small infant. There are even some parents who begin reading to their unborn children.

When the Time Comes … Let Your Child Read to You

Of course, as your child grows older and develops, there will become a time when you will want to let your child start reading to you at bedtime. This wonderful transition marks an important moment in the life of your child on many levels. First, it is a demonstration of his or her advancing educational abilities. Moreover, it is a sign that your child is taking steps to gain a sense of not previously seen maturity. It is a mark of your child’s positive development on down the road of live.

By keeping these fundamental factors associated with the bedtime story and bedtime story time in mind, you will be able to develop an ever deeper and stronger relationship with your child. You will also be working to lay a foundation for a wonderful future for your young one.

 

译文: 睡前阅读:建立纽带的成功经验

Baby Bedtime Reading     尽管听起来是一个过时的经验,实际上还是有许多父母每天晚上会花一些时间在睡前给孩子做阅读,而这确实也带来了许多很显著而又有意义的好处。
  
睡前阅读的纽带效应
     经典的睡前阅读习惯能带来的最大的好处就是能给你一个珍贵的机会跟孩子相处,也就是所谓的“有质量的时间”。在每天忙碌的生活中获取与孩子交流亲和的机会。
    对许多父母或者他们的孩子来说,在他们成长道路上最有趣的记忆也许就是这些安静共享故事的时间了。
 
睡前阅读的教育效应
     另外一个睡前阅读及其重要的好处就是来源于阅读中的教育作用。给孩子建立一个坚实的教育基础的最好的方法之一也许就是很早就开始给孩子阅读。
     确实有一些学者认为在宝宝很小的时候开始给他阅读会有很多好处,有些父母甚至在怀孕阶段就给宝宝阅读。
 
时间变迁--让孩子给你阅读
     当然,当你孩子长大了成熟了,你会有叫孩子给你做睡前阅读的需要。这个美妙的转换标志了孩子生命中一个重要的时刻。首先,是孩子提前教育能力的一个显现。更重要的是,是孩子慢慢获知自己成熟的一个信号。是孩子在生活道路上一个成长标记。
     通过保存这些与睡前阅读相关的记忆,你会跟你孩子形成一个深厚的关系纽带。而你也为孩子能有一个美好的为了奠定了基础。