Women and men contribute love in different ways. Women are more emotional so touching, saying I Love You, and doing things for us are acts of love. For example, cleaning up the dishes or cooking dinner is acts of love. For men they contribute love with respect and sex. A good example is that women want men to say “I Love You”, however, if they do not tell us they love us then we fall apart. If we do not respect them, and love them then they start to become defensive. That is when the fighting will probably start.
An age difference of 7 - 15 years can lead to a really great relationship if both partners are willing to. That’s because we don’t choose who we fall in love with, it simply happens.
Most women over 25 and single are already disappointed by men of their age, they are looking to find a mature man that can satisfy their needs. In most cases men reach their maturity level after the age of 30; therefore, most women are just wasting time with men under 30. Most women over 25 believe that older men won’t break their hearts the way younger men have done; they believe that an older man will have the commitment and the willingness required for a long-term relationship.
Age indicates maturity, and decision making ability, so older men are a better choice for a mate. Many young women say young men their same age don’t respect them, but older men do. Younger women enjoy having someone take care of them and are attracted to an older man’s accomplishments, economic stability and emotional maturity.
Younger women and older men are capable of sharing similar life views and goals, despite their age differences. Younger women and older men have no problem accepting each other’s friends. Younger men and older women share the same principles when it comes to family.
Age difference makes no difference, and can lead to a really great relationship if both partners are willing to work at it. Younger women and older men don’t choose to fall in love with each other; it simply happens. Younger women who fall in love with older men have father issues that can sometimes border on the psychotic. Younger women say that older men make them feel special, give them everything they need, give them so much attention, make them feel wanted and needed, and make them feel like a queen.
Younger women usually prefer men who are financially stable, and in most cases the most financially secure men are older men who are established, and in a much better position to take care of a wife than young men. Older men are often more patient, and actually listen to what younger women have to say and respect her opinions–qualities younger women appreciate in older men.
Older men–unlike young men–know what they want in a relationship; they can entertain, wine and dine a young woman–court her the old-fashioned way. Older men know what they want out of life; they are not uncertain about themselves, as younger men sometimes can be and can help bolster a woman financially as well as bolster her self-esteem.
Older men are more experienced sexually and tend to have less of a sex drive, but many women find that the lovemaking with an older man is completely fulfilling to them, as older men are better at listening to the needs of a younger woman than a man their own age tends to be.
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为什么女人喜欢比她大的男人？
女人和男人表达爱的方式各不一样。女人比较情绪化，容易感动，对我们说“我爱你”，为我们做事情都是爱的表现。比如说，洗碗煮饭都是爱的表现。对男人来说，他们是以尊重和性来表达爱。
一个很典型的例子就是女人想要男人对她们说“我爱你”，然而，如果她们不对我们说她们爱我们，我们就会分手。如果我们不尊重她们，她们就会开始防备我们。那就是战争可能开始爆发的时刻。
如果双方都愿意的话，7到15岁的年龄差可能会促成一对真诚的完美的情侣。那就是因为我们不选择我们很容易爱上的人。
大部分超过25岁单身的女人已经对同年龄的男人感到失望。她们正在找能满足她们需求的成熟男人。大部分情况下，男人在三十岁以后就达到成熟的水平了；因此，大部分的女人和三十岁以下的男人在一起都仅仅是在浪费时间。大部分超过25岁的女人相信这一点：成熟的男人不会用年轻的男人伤害她们的方式伤害她们；她们相信成熟的男人将会承担责任并很乐意去经营长期的关系。
年龄表示成熟，决策成就能力，所以选择成熟的男人作为配偶是一个比较好的选择。很多年轻的女人说同年龄的人男人不尊重她们，但是成熟的男人尊重她们。年轻的女人喜欢有人照顾她们，有成就，经济收入稳定，感情成熟的男人吸引着年轻的女人。
年轻的女人和成熟的男人可以一起分享相似的生活观点和目标，尽管他们的年龄有差距。年轻的女人和成熟的男人都能接受双方的朋友，没有任何问题。当他们组成一个家庭以后，他们都能共同遵守原则。
年龄的差距没有造成任何影响，如果双方都愿意共同经营的话，他们可以促成一对真诚完美的恋人。一般年轻的女人和成熟的男人都不会爱上对方。爱上成熟男人的年轻女人有恋父情结，有时候会进一步发展成为精神病患者。年轻的女人说岁数比她们大的男人会让她们感到她们特别，能给她们需要的一切，给她们很多关注，让她们感觉到被需要，让她们感觉到她们像女王。
年轻的女人一般都喜欢经济稳定的男人，大部分情况下经济最稳定的男人都是创建在成熟男人上，他们比年轻的男人更有能力照顾好妻子。成熟的男人通常比较耐心，事实上更愿意倾听女人说话并尊重她们的观点—年轻女人们欣赏成熟男人的这些特质。
成熟男人—不像年轻男人—知道她们需要什么；他们懂得让年轻女人高兴，一起喝红酒和进餐—用过时的方式讨好她们。成熟男人知道她们在生活之外想要什么；她们做事情犹犹豫豫，正如年轻的男人有时候也会这样，他们会在经济上鼓励女人也在鼓励她们的自尊。
成熟的男人在性方面比较有经验，更趋向于少一个性别驱动器，但是很多女人发现和成熟的男人做爱能充分满足她们，正如成熟的男人比年轻的男人更愿意倾听女人的要求。
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