在这次大灾中，我听到了很多感人的，悲伤的，喜悲参半，就发生在5月那场大地震期间的两个真实的故事让我感慨。本是相爱的，离了婚；本是去办离婚手续的结果反而重归于好，从地震中逃生后恢复了平静的生活。俗话说大难见真情，这次的地震的确算是“大难”，生死关头，可以考验朋友的真心，当然也能在这性命攸关的危机时刻看到夫妻之间的“真感情”。
有两件发生在地震来临时的爱情故事，让人无限感慨和唏嘘。
第一个故事来自一对看似恩爱的夫妻。两个恋爱两年后结婚，婚后一直没要孩子，在人前人后都显得十分幸福美满。
那场大地震来临的前夕，两人有家中相互依偎着看电视。下午2时多，楼房开始轻轻摇动，两人并未在意。随后，楼房的晃动越来越凶，他们才发现大事不妙。“地震了！”他吼了一声，就快速打开门，头也不回地自顾跑了出去。
女人被地震吓住了，更被他自私的行为“震”傻了，竟然一时间没了反应，而那男人逃跑到底楼后，开始良心发现，才再次返回寻找妻子。事后，为弥补自己的过失，他给她下跪，恳请她原谅，他说他不是故意的，他一直都很爱她。然而她却失望伤心透顶，决定离婚。
另一个故事来自一对准备离异的夫妻。地震来临的那一天，他们是准备办理离婚手续的。
那个城市的婚姻登记处在一栋高楼的21层。地震发生的时候，楼摇晃得很厉害，所有人都陷入极度恐慌当中。这个时候，他向她伸出了温暖有力的手，在向楼下逃生的过程里，这对年近40岁的夫妻手拉着手相互许诺：“如果成功逃生，就好好在一起。”当夫妻俩从21楼的婚姻登记处一路跑下后，和很多情侣一样，在大街上相拥而泣，发誓一辈子不再分离。
以前在一本书上看到过这样的问题——大难来临时，你会不会牵住爱人的手？旁边配了一幅漫画，是这样说的：你能在大雨里捧着花在我家门前等待吗？你能在千人万人的海滩里认出我游泳衣的颜色来吗？你能在众人的目光里坦然地为我洗袜子吗？你能在大难来临时紧紧握住我的手吗？画面上，先是如林密举的手臂，一排一排地放下，又一排一排地放下，再一排一排地放下，到最后，似乎只有一片空白……
是的，说一点甜言蜜语，做一点浪漫小事，甚至暂时放下自尊为爱妥协，这都不难，最难的是当生死考验来临的时候，你还能不顾自己的安危，勇敢地牵住爱人的手。
当然，我们更应该对生活和爱情充满信心，我们无法预测生命中可能来临的考验，我们要做的只能是独善其身，完满自我，培养一颗高贵的心灵。这样，当灾难到来的时候，我们不会失态，不会畏缩，不会让所爱的人失望，我们会握紧爱人的手，共渡难关。
译文:
When Disaster Comes, Will You Hold Lover’s Hand?
In this disaster, I have heard of many heart-warming and sad stories that contain half-and-half happiness and sadness, of which two true stories that just happened during May earthquake period is really moving to me. The couple who originally loved each other divorced, the couple who originally went to handle divorce procedure came together again. Quiet life came back again after they fleed from the earthquake. As the saying goes that a friend in need is a friend indeed. The current earthquake is indeed a “disaster”, it can test friends' real heart in an emergency, and certainly we also can see “real sensation” of couples at the dangerous life-relating time.
Two love stories happened when the earthquake came, which made people have infinite emotion and moan.
One story was about a pair of couple that seemed to have conjugal love. After two years of love, they married. They didn't have babies after marriage. It seemed that they are full of happiness.
On earthquake eve, these two people leaned close to one another watching TV. When it's more than 2 o'clock, the storied building started to shake slightly. But they didn't care about it. Subsequently, the building shook more and more terribly. At this time, they found that things are sinister. “ Earthquaking! ” He shouted, rapidly opened the door, and ran out by himself without a backward glance.
The woman was frightened by the earthquake, and was even more “shook” by his selfish action, and has no reaction temporarily. After the man ran to the grind floor, he started to appear conscience and came back to find his wife again. Later, in order to remedy his misstep, he keened down to her, and adjured her to forgive him. He said that he was not purposive and he loved her very much. However, the wife was extremely disappointed and sad and decided to divorce.
Another story was about the couple who were going to separate. On the day that earthquake came, they had prepared to go to handle divorce procedure.
Marriage registry of that city was placed on the 21st floor of one high building. When the earthquake happened, the building was shaking terribly. All of the people got into extreme scare. At this time, he stretched warm and powerful hand to her. During the course of fleeing to the floor, these two nearly-40-year-old couple committed to each other with hand in hand: “If we can survive this time, we should get together well.” When the couple ran down all the way from the 21st-floor marriage registry, like many lovers, they embraced each other and cried, they vowed that they wouldn’t separate all their life.
I saw this question before, ie, when the disaster came, will you hold lover's hand? At its side, a cartoon was matched. It said that, could you hold flowers in both hands to wait at my door in the rain? Could you recognize my swimsuit color in the beach that has thousands of people? Could you calmly wash socks for me before everybody's eyes? Could you tightly hold my hand when disaster came? On the picture, firstly the hand was raised as close as forest, then the hand was put down with low and low, and again and again the hand was put down with low and low. Finally, it seemed that there was blank……
Yes, it's not difficult to speak some sweet talk and do some small romantic things, and even temporarily let down the self-esteem to compromise for the love. The most difficult thing is that when it comes to the life and death test, can you still disregard your safety and danger, and boldly hold lover's hand?
Of course, we should be full of confidence to life and love. We cannot forecast the text that may come in the life. What we ought to do is to make our heart and thoughts immune to the spectacle, fill us with selfhood, cultivate a noble soul. In this way, when disaster comes, we won't gaffe, won't shrink, and won't be disappointed by lovers. We will tightly hold lover's hand, and bridge over the difficulties.