Adriana GQ Magazine (April 2008)
Don’t let me scare you.
Usually, guys are nervous. I think they are afraid of me. I don’t think I look scary. Be however you are. Don’t try to be what you’re not. If you’re nervous, be nervous. If you’re shy, be shy. It’s cute.
Put the Treo down and pay attention to me.
If you’re having dinner with friends and they’re always on the phone or always texting, it’s just impolite. Unless it’s something important—like someone is in the hospital or something—don’t do it. It’s not attractive. It’s a girlie thing. It makes you seem like a teenage girl. Especially if you’re talking about parties and which clubs you’re going to and who’s going to be there…it’s just silly.
Get jealous…
I like jealous men. I love jealousy. I do. Everything has a limit, of course, but once in a while you have to stand up and say, “I love this person.”
…but not violent.
It’s never okay to defend my honor by beating someone up. You have to control yourself, even if the other person is drunk and crazy. Just say, “Let’s go home. Let’s leave.” You don’t have to say a thing to him. I never have to see that person for the rest of my life. I don’t like fights. I don’t like aggressive people.
Don’t hit on my girlfriends!
(No matter how hot they are.)
Don’t treat them like a piece of meat. Don’t flirt with them! We’re not competitive. It has happened before, and it never works.
A beautiful girl is a beautiful girl, not an accessory.
Don’t change your personality when you get around people at a party, or don’t walk in and think you’re the hottest person because you have the hottest girl. If you start carrying me around like a trophy, it’s not good.
Just remember, you’re really dating the waiter.
A man needs to be polite, not just to me but to everyone. I watch that. How does he treat the waiter? How does he treat the coat-check girl? How does he treat the driver? Don’t give orders to these people. You don’t own everything around you. Treat people with respect.
Your first move should be no move at all.
Sometimes people are too aggressive. I need time to realize exactly who you are before I go out with you. Don’t be pushy. Don’t pressure me. “When can I see you? When can I meet you? When can we go out?” No. Take your time. When I’m ready, I’ll make the move.
Make friends with your inner viscount.
Show me you can take care of me. Say you’re taking me to dinner: I expect you to pick me up and open the car door for me. Hold the restaurant door while I enter and pull out the chair for me when I sit down. Stand up when I go to the restroom and again when I return. I love old-fashioned manners, as long as it’s not forced. I can tell when it’s natural or when someone is just trying to impress me.
Take me away.
(But not too far.)
When we’re traveling together for the first time, we sleep in different rooms. That’s the number one thing. And you should plan the whole trip. Buy the ticket, get the car to the airport, organize everything so I don’t have to think about it. And yes, carry my bags. I don’t travel light, either—at least two bags. Always. But if you say, “Oh, I’m going to fly you to Paris for the weekend,” or something like that, make sure we know each other well first. I’m not going to fly a million miles with somebody I don’t know.
A gift is only as good as the time, energy, and effort you put into it.
Sometimes people think they need to show you how successful they are and how much money they have, so they get you something too big. Don’t do this. The simple thing is always the best. Write me a letter, because it shows that you made an effort and that you gave of yourself. I love that. I also love flowers. It could be even one flower. You don’t have to buy something big to show that you love me.
But that doesn’t mean you shouldn’t aim high.
You know how you can have a star named after a person, as a gift? A few years ago, a friend of mine received this present from her husband, and I thought it was so romantic. I thought, Ohhhhhh. That’s really amazing. That’s unbelievable. This guy must really love her!
There is no such thing as casual dating.
I don’t understand dating when you go with someone but you can see other people at the same time. Huh? I don’t do that. I’m always serious. I’ve only had four or five relationships, and I’ve never stayed with anyone for less than one year. I don’t date too much because I find it very difficult to find men who are willing to compromise, and when you’re in a relationship you have to compromise. You have to make sacrifices. You can’t just continue doing everything you did before.
Call your mom. For real.
It’s important that a man has a good relationship with his family. Your family is your base—they make you who you are—and if you don’t respect them, I don’t think you can respect anyone else. If you have problems with them, you need to resolve those problems. And while I’m at it, treat my mother like your mother: with respect, with care. I love it when you ask about my family. You should always ask about how my family is doing, because in the future they may be your family, too.
Go home. Now.
You have to have limits—limits on everything: on drinking, on going out, on jealousy. Everything has to have a limit. Nothing too much is good.
Rethink those nurse fantasies.
When I’m sick, I want a lot of caresses.* Make sure I eat. If you don’t know how to cook, call and get food delivered. Go to the pharmacy and get the medication I need. Just take care of me until I get better. That’s it. Simple. If you don’t know what to do, ask me. Just say, “What do you need?” I will tell you. Whatever I tell you, do. That’s it.
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怎样博得性感超模Adriana嫣然一笑
性感超模Adriana08年4月亮相GQ时尚男性杂志
别叫我吓着你 通常,男生们都会紧张.我认为他们怕我。我不觉得自己看起来胆小。因此就做你自己吧。不要试着变成一个不真实的自己。如果你觉得紧张，那就让它紧张；如果觉得害羞，就让它害羞去。我觉得这很可爱。
放下Treo手机，注意我 若你在和一群朋友吃晚饭时，他们总是在打电话或者发短消息，这真的很不礼貌。除非是象有人进了医院之类的事情，否则的话，别这样做。这是女生喜欢做的事情，并不吸引人，让你看起来象个十几岁的女孩子。特别是当你们在讨论派对，你准备去哪个俱乐部，那里有哪些人之类的事情，这看上去真的很傻。
会妒忌 我喜欢妒忌的男人，我喜欢那种妒忌。很喜欢。当然，什么事都有个限度，但是偶尔你得站起来说道，“我喜欢这个人。”
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但是不要很凶暴的样子
为了保卫我的荣誉而去暴打某人，这样做是绝对不可以的。你要会控制自己，即使对方是醉醺醺的而且有点疯狂。只需要说，“我们离开这里，回家吧。”你不必对他说什么。我以后都再也不必看到那个人了。我不喜欢打架搏斗，也不喜欢好斗的人。
不许对我的女友用情！
（不管她们有多性感火辣）
别看到她们就象看到一块肉似的。不许和她们打情骂俏！我们不喜欢竞争。这样的事情曾经发生过，可结果都不好。
美女就是个美丽的女生，而不是个附属物
当你在派对上四处周旋时，切勿不时的调换着自己的性情，也不要到处走动，因为拥有了最漂亮的女孩就自认为自己是最受欢迎的人了。如果你开始把我当战利品一样带着四处炫耀的话，情况可不妙了。
切记，你实际上也在和服务员约会 男人应该要彬彬有礼，不仅是对我，更要对所有人都这样。我很注意观察这点。他怎样对待服务员？怎么对待收银员？或者是司机？不要对着这些人发号施令。你并不是周围这一切的主人。因此要会尊重他人。
你的第一个行动应该是无行动 有时人们会太好斗。在我答应与你出去约会前，我需要一些时间去认识你到底是怎样的一个人。不要那么急躁，也不要催我。“我什么时候可以看到你？我什么时候可以遇见你？我们什么时候可以出去约会？”别这样。从容点。当我准备好的时候，我会行动的。
同你内心的子爵建交
要让我看到你可以照顾好我。就拿带我去吃晚饭做例子吧：我希望你会来接我，为我打开车门。在我进餐厅的时候为我打开门，我坐下的时候为我摆好椅子。当我要去洗手间的时候，你会起立，我回来时也是如此。我喜欢这些旧式的礼仪习惯，当然，前提是这些行为都不是强迫而为的。我并不能够分辨这到底是出于自然而为还是你只是想要让我有个好印象。
带我走
（但是不要太远）
当我们第一次一起旅游时，我们要分别睡各自的房间。这是最重要的事。而且你应该计划好整个行程。买票，准备好去机场的车，安排好所有的事情，这样我就可以不必考虑那么多事情了。哦！对了！还有带上我的包！我旅游时行当不会少的---至少两个包，一直如此。但是，要是你说，“哦！我准备周末带你飞到巴黎去，”或者类似于“想要先确定我们该足够了解彼此”这样的话，我是不会跟一个我不认识的男人就这么飞到百万英里以外的地方去呢。
礼物的好坏在于你在它上面花的时间，精力和努力
有时人们认为他们要在你面前炫耀他们有多成功，他们有多富有，因此他们会给你买很贵重的物品。请不要这样做。最简单的往往就是最好的。给我写一封信，因为它表明了你的努力和付出。我喜欢这些。我还喜欢鲜花，甚至可以只有一朵。你不用买贵重的东西来显示你有多爱我。
但那并不表示你没有远大的目标
你知道用一个人的名字来命名一颗恒星也可以作为一份礼物吗?若干年前，我的一个朋友就收到了她丈夫送的这么一份礼物，我觉得这浪漫极了。我当时就觉得，哦哦哦哦哦哦哦，天哪！那真是太惊人了！简直是不可思议。这个男人一定真的很爱她！
绝对不可以漫不经心地约会
我真的不理解当你正在和一个人约会时你却一直看着别的人。哈?我不会那样做的，我会一直很认真。我只有过四五段感情，每段感情都超过一年。我约会不会太多，因为我发现很难找到愿意妥协的男人，而当你处于一段恋情中时总是你不得不去妥协。你必须要牺牲一些。你只是不能继续做所有那些你以前一直做的事情。
要常给母亲打电话
一个男人与他的家人有个很好的关系，这非常重要。你的家人是一切的根基，是他们让你成为了现在的你，而如果你不尊重他们的话，我认为你大概不会尊重任何人了。如果你和他们之间有些问题，你要去解决问题。涉及到我，要向对待自己的母亲一样对待我的母亲，尊重她，关心她。当你问及我的家人时，我很开心。你应该要常常问问我家里怎么样了，因为以后他们也许就是你的家人。
回家，现在就回 你必须要有限制---在所有的事情上：饮酒，约会，妒忌心。什么事情都得有个限度，要明白那句老话，过犹不及。
再想想那些照料我的美事 当我病了，我需要好多的关爱。要保证我的饮食。如果你不知道烹饪的话，记得打电话点快递。要去药房开我需要的药。一直照顾我直到我转好。就是这样，很简单。要是你不知道怎么做，直接问我。只要说，“你需要什么吗？”我就会告诉你。不管我告诉你什么，照着做就是。就是这么简单。