爱情的容量
给爱情划界时不妨宽容一些，以便为人生种种美好的遭遇保留怀念的权利。
让我们承认，无论短暂的邂逅，还是长久的纠缠，无论相识恨晚的无奈，还是终成眷属的有情，无论倾注了巨大激情的冲突,还是伴随着细小争吵的和谐，这一切都是爱情。每个活生生的人的爱情经历不是一座静止的纪念碑，而是一道流动的江河。当我们回顾往事时，我们自己不必否认、更不该要求对方否认其中任何一段流程、一条支流或一朵浪花。
我不相信人一生只能爱一次，我也不相信人一生必须爱许多次。次数不说明问题。爱情的容量即一个人的心灵的容量。你是深谷，一次爱情就像一道江河，许多次爱情就像许多浪花。你是浅滩，一次爱情只是一条细流，许多次爱情也只是许多泡沫。
一个人的爱情经历并不限于与某一个或某几个特定异性之间的恩恩怨怨，而且也是对于整个异性世界的总体感受。
爱情不是人生中一个凝固的点，而是一条流动的河。这条河中也许有壮观的激流，但也必然会有平缓的流程，也许有明显的主航道，但也可能会有支流和暗流。除此之外，天上的云彩和两岸的景物会在河面上映出倒影，晚来的风雨会在河面上吹起涟漪，打起浪花。让我们承认，所有这一切都是这条河的组成部分，共同造就了我们生命中的美丽的爱情风景。
爱情不论短暂或长久，都是美好的。甚至陌生异性之间毫无结果的好感，定睛的一瞥，朦胧的激动，莫名的惆怅，也是美好的。因为，能够感受这一切的那颗心毕竟是年轻的。生活中若没有邂逅以及对邂逅的期待，未免太乏味了。
人生魅力的前提之一是，新的爱情的可能性始终向你敞开着，哪怕你并不去实现它们。如果爱情的天空注定不再有新的云朵飘过，异性世界对你不再有任何新的诱惑，人生岂不太乏味了?
不要以成败论人生，也不要以成败论爱情。
现实中的爱情多半是失败的,不是败于难成眷属的无奈，就是败于终成眷屈的厌倦。然而，无奈留下了永久的怀恋，厌倦激起了常新的追求，这又未尝不是爱情本身的成功。
说到底，爱情是超越于成败的。爱情是人生最美丽的梦，你能说你做了一个成功的梦或失败的梦吗?
爱情是盲目的，只要情投意合，仿佛就一丑遮百丑。爱情是心明眼亮的，只要情深意久，确实就一丑遮百丑。
一个爱情的生存时间或长或短，但必须有一个最短限度，这是爱情之为爱情的质的保证。小于这个限度，两情无论怎样热烈，也只能算作一时的迷恋，不能称作爱情。
译文:
The Volume of Love
The Volume of Love
Be tolerant when making delimitation for love, so that to reserve the right of yearning all types of nice encounters in life .
Let's aknowledge that are all love, whether transient meeting or long entanglement; whether regreting meeting too late or affectionating well ends; whether conflict with pouring great emotion or harmony with petty quarrel . Every living one's love experience is not a still monument, but a floating river . When we look backwards, we can't deny or make the other side to deny any flow, affluent or spray .
I don't believe one can only love once, or must love many times in life . Frequency can not explain the problem . The volume of love is the capacity of one's spirit . If you are a deep valley, then one time's love is like a river, many times' is as many sprays. If you are a shoal, love once means a tricklet, love many times are just many bubbles .
One's love experience is not only the kind and enmity between he/she and one or more opposite sex, but also the total feeling of the whole world of opposite sex .
Love is not a freezing point in life, it is a flowing river . There might be great torrent in this river, but there must be subdued flowsheet, there might be obvious fairway, but there are also streams and undercurrents . Besides, the clouds in the sky and the scenery on the banks will be reflected on the river, the wind and rain in the evening will blew waves or sprays . Let's aknowledge, what this is all about constituent of the river, which together make up the beautiful love scenery in our life .
Love are all nice, whether transient or permanent . Even the resultless favor between two stranger opposite sexes, a staring without eyes blinking, the obscurity excitement, the nameless sorrow, all the above are also nice . Because the heart who can feel all these is young, after all . If there is no encounter or expectation for encounter in life, how boring it will be .
One of the preconditions of life charm is that the possible of new love always open to you, even if you do not carry it out . If there will be no new clouds fewing in your love sky, if the world of opposite sex do not have any new attraction for you, how dull your life will be ?
Do not judge ife by victory or defeat, and do not judge love so .
Most love in the reality are failure, either helpless of failing to be well ends, or boredom of the failure of well ends . However, helpless leaves permanent yearn, boredom activize new pursuit . Are not these successful of love itself ? When all goes to all, love is surperior over successful and lost . Love is the most beautiful dream in life, can you name a dream with success or failure ?
Love is blind, it seems one disgrace can cover hundred, as long as the two in love agree in taste and temperament . Love is bright both in eyes and mind, it is really one disgrace can cover hundred, as far as the love is deep enough and last for long .
One love's lifecycle can be long or short, but there must be a shortest limitation, which is a quality warrant for love . If less than this limitation, no matter how heat between two, it will just be temporal indulgence, but cannot be called love .