1、当你爱上一个男人，千万别去想自己是不是应该矜持一点。爱他就告诉他，有时候男人也很爱虚荣，你的表白会让他的自信达到顶点。
2、当你已经不爱他了，那么也用最直接的方式告诉他。别去考虑他会不会脆弱，男人的自尊远比伤痛重要。
3、当你们已经相爱，那么就要对他信任，有什么想法就告诉他，不管他支持不支持。任何一个男人都希望他的女人依靠他。
4、在他的朋友面前，要给他十足的地位。面子对男人来说比什么都重要，不要介意在别人面前当个小女人，要知道小女人都是男人宠出来的。
5、他在打游戏的时候，不论你有多急的事情，也不要直接去关他的电脑。最好是搂着他，在他耳边轻轻的细语，因为男人对游戏的执迷胜过你看一部精彩的肥皂剧。
6、男人每个月也有那几天，跟女人差不多，心情无故低落。这个时候不要问他怎么了，只要陪在他身边，做好你自己。
7、他和朋友出去喝酒、打牌，你不要问他为什么不带你一块前往。男人都愿意做风筝，只要线还在你手里，那么就放他去飞吧。
8、男人都很懒很笨，尽管他爱你，但是不想费尽心思讨好你。你所能做的就是在适当的时候给他个明示，男人有时候需要女人给他强有力的当头一棒。
9、男人不管他外表有多强大，但是骨子里都还是一个孩子。他在任性的时候不要对他大吼大叫，这对他不起做用。最有效的办法是陪他一起疯，等他平静后轻轻的告诉他，你很爱他。
10、男人都是不肯认错的，在他知道错的时候给他一个台阶下，他会知恩图报的。
体谅一个男人，那就是把他当成你的爱人、情人、哥哥、朋友、父亲、孩子。爱他，不要给他负担，给他自由，也是给自己自由。女人要知道什么时候该进什么时候该退；什么时候该挡在他的前面，什么时候该躲在他身后。把他当成你自己一样去爱护，成全了他的幸福，他才会成全你的幸福。
译文:
How to love your men dearly in the most suitable way
1.When you fall in love with a man, do not think to be a little reserved. Just tell him you love him. Sometimes a man also has vanity, so your confession will bring him to the highest point of confidence.
2 If you don’t love him any longer, tell him your feeling in the most direct way. Do not consider how fragile his heart is, because the self-esteem of a man is more important than the hurt of love.
3. If you are in love with each other, you should trust him. Whether he supports or not, tell him what you are thinking. Every man hopes his woman to count on him.
4.Save him face in front of his friends. For a man, face is above all things, so don’t mind being a little woman in front of others. You should know that a little woman is all spoilt by a man.
5. Don’t turn off his computer directly while he is playing games, no matter how urgent is the thing. You had better hug him gently, and whisper your needs in his ear, because a man is crazier about computer games than a series of wonderful soap opera which you want to watch.
6. Like a woman, a man is also upset for a few days of a month. At that moment, don’t ask what’s going wrong with him, and you just stay by his side doing what you should do.
7.Don’t ask him why he doesn’t bring you with him when he goes out drinking and playing cards with his friends. Man all hopes to be a kite. Let him fly as long as the lines are in your hands.
8. Man is always lazy and silly. Though he loves you, he will not rack him mind to please you. What you could do is to give him a lead at suitable time, because man sometimes needs a sudden blow from woman.
9.No matter how strong he looks, he’s still a child in the bones. It doesn’t take effect to shout at him when he has no self-restraint. The most effective way is to go crazy with him. After both of you calm down , tell him softly that you love him.
10. Man is reluctant to admit his mistakes. Making a concession at the moment he is aware of his fault he will be very grateful to you.
Understanding a man means to regard him as your husband, your lover, your brother, your friend, your father, and your child. Love him, so don’t give him burden; let him have his own space as well as yourself. You should know when to stay by his side and when to let him stay alone; when to protect him, when to stay behind him. Love him as you love yourself; help him attain his happiness, then he will make you happy.