Different ideas between the ordinary and the rich

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原文: 一股人与富人的不同的观念

以前这个题目是穷人与富人的不同观念,我为什么要把他改为一般人呢?因为我们一股现在不会说自己穷,而最经常听到的是“一般般”,所以一般更具代表性。

 1.自我认知

  • 一般人:很少想到如何去赚钱和如何才能赚到钱,认为自己一辈子就该这样,不相信会有什么改变。(尤其是有一份稳定工作的人,包括我在内,所以大部分人都是普通人。)
  • 富人:骨子里就深信自己生下来不是要做一般人,而是要做富人,他有强烈的赚钱意识,这已是他血液里的东西,他会想尽一切办法使自己致富。

2.休闲

  • 一般人:在家看电视,为肥皂剧的剧情感动得痛哭流涕,还要仿照电视里的时尚打扮自己。(想想看过的电视剧,有没有对你有影响的?)
  • 富人:在外跑市场,即使打高尔夫球也不忘带着项目合同。

3.交际圈子

  • 一般人:喜欢走一般亲戚,一般人的圈子大多是一般人,也排斥与富人交往,久而久之,心态成了一般人的心态,思维成了一般人的思维,做出来的事也就是一般人的模式。大家每天谈论着打折商品,交流着节约技巧,虽然有利于训练生存能力,但你的眼界也就渐渐囿于这样的琐事,而将雄心壮志消磨掉了。(这会在我们心中不知不觉美化为“贫贱不能移的骨气”
  • 富人:最喜欢交那种对自己有帮助,能提升自己各种能力的朋友。不纯粹放任自己仅以个人喜好交朋友。

4.学习

  • 一般人:学手艺。(这在富爸爸里解释得很清楚)
  • 富人:学管理。

5.时间

  • 一般人:一个享受充裕时间的人不可能挣大钱,要想悠闲轻松就会失去更多挣钱的机会。一般人的时间不值钱的,有时甚至多余,不知道怎么打发,怎么混起来才不烦。如果你可以因为买一斤白菜多花了一毛钱而气恼不已,却不为虚度一天而心痛,这就是典型的一般人思维。(现在QQ上听到最多的就是烦,无聊,都不想听了!)
  • 富人:一个人无论以何种方式挣钱,也无论钱挣得是多是少,都必须经过时间的积淀。富人的玩也是一种工作方式,是有目的的。富人的闲,闲在身体,修身养性,以利再战,脑袋一刻也没有闲着;一般人的闲,闲在思想,他手脚都在忙,忙着去麻将桌上多摸几把。(一切成功都在于积累!

6.归属感

  • 一般人:是颗螺丝钉。一般人因为自身的卑微,缺少安全感,就迫切地希望自己从属并依赖于一个团体。于是他们以这个团体的标准为自己的标准,让自己的一切合乎规范,为团体的利益而工作,奔波,甚至迁徙。对于一般人来说,在一个著名的企业里稳定地工作几十年,由实习生一直干到高级主管,那简直是美妙得不能再美妙的理想了。
  • 富人:那些团体的领导者通常都是富人,他们总是一方面向一般人灌输:团结就是力量,如果你不从属于自己这个团体,你就什么都不是,一文不名。但另一方面,他们却从来没有停止过招兵买马,培养新人,以便随时可以把你替换。

7.投资及对待财富

  • 一般人:经典观点就是少用就等于多赚。比如开一家面馆,收益率是100%,投入2万,一年就净赚2万,对一般人来说很不错了。一般人即使有钱,也舍不得拿出来,即使终于下定决心投资,也不愿冒风险,最终还是走不出那一步。一般人最津津乐道的就是鸡生蛋,蛋生鸡,一本万利……但是建筑在一只母鸡身上的希望,毕竟是那样脆弱。(购买更多的资产吧!让钱为你工作。
  • 富人:富人的出发点是万本万利。同样的开面馆,富人们会想,一家面馆承载的资本只有2万,如果有1亿资金,岂不是要开5000家面馆?要一个一个管理好,大老板得操多少心,累白多少根头发呀?还不如投资宾馆,一个宾馆就足以消化全部的资本,哪怕收益率只有20%,一年下来也有2000万利润啊!

8.激情 能不能干成大事,首先要看有没有激情

  • 一般人:没有激情。他总是按部就班,很难出大错,也绝不会做最好。没有激情就无法兴奋,就不可能全心全意投入工作,大部分的一般人不能说没有激情,但他的激情总是消耗在太具体的事情上;上司表扬了,他会激动;商店打折了,他会激动;电视里破镜重圆了,他的眼泪一串一串往XL,一般人有的只是一种情绪。
  • 富人:”燕雀安知鸿鹄之志?”"王侯将相,宁有种乎?”有这样的激情,一般人终将不是一般人!激情是一种天性,是生命力的象征,有了激情,才有了灵感的火花,才有了鲜明的个性,才有了人际关系中的强烈感染力,也才有了解决问题的魅力和方法。

9.自信

  • 一般人:一般人的自信要通过武装到牙齿,要通过一身高级名牌的穿戴和豪华的配饰才能给他们带来更多的自信,一般人的自信往往不是发自内心和自然天成的。(自信是对危机把握的能力。
  • 富人:李嘉诚在谈到他的经营秘诀时说:”其实也没什么特别的,光景好时,决不过分乐观;光景不好时,也不过度悲观”。其实就是一种富人特有的自信。自信才能不被外力所左右,自信才可能有正确的决定。

10.习惯

  • 一般人:有个故事,一个富人送给一般人一头牛。一般人满怀希望开始奋斗。可牛要吃草,人要吃饭,日子很难。一般人于是把牛卖了,买了几只羊,吃了一只,剩下的来生小羊。可小羊迟迟没有生下来,日子又艰难了。一般人又把羊卖了,买成鸡。想让鸡生蛋赚钱为生,但是曰子并没有改变,最后一般人把鸡也杀了,一般人的理想彻底崩溃了。这就是一般人的习惯。(生活永远有付不完的账。
  • 富人:据一个投资专家说,富人成功秘诀就是:没钱时,不管多困难,也不要动用投资和积蓄,压力使你找到赚钱的新方法,帮你还清账单。这是个好习惯。性格形成习惯,习惯决定成功。

11.上网络

  • 一般人:上网聊天。一般人聊天,一是一般人时间多,二是一般人的嘴天生就不能闲着。富人讲究荣辱不惊,温柔敦厚,那叫涵养,有涵养才能树大根深。一般人就顾不了那么多,成天受着别人的白眼,浑身沾满了鸡毛蒜皮,多少窝囊气啊,说说都不行?聊天有理!
  • 富人:上网找投资机会。富人上网,更多的是利用网络的低成本高效率,寻找更多的投资机会和项目,把便利运用到自己的生意中来。

12.消费花钱

  • 一般人:买名牌是为了体验满足感,最喜欢试验刚出来的流行时尚产品,相信贵的必然是好的。
  • 富人:买名牌是为了节省挑选细节的时间,与消费品的售价相比,他们更在乎产品的质量,比如会买15元的纯棉T恤,也不会买昂贵的莱卡制品。

译文: Different ideas between the ordinary and the rich

  The topic before was different ideas between the poor and the rich, and why do I change it into the ordinary now? The reason is that we generally do not say we are poor now and the phrase“ just so so” is most frequently heard, which makes “ordinary ” more representative.

 

 1. Self-cognition

  The ordinary: seldom think how to earn money and how they can make money; think they deserves it all their lives as well as do not believe there will be any changes.(especially for those who have stable jobs, including me, so most people are the ordinary.

  The rich: heartily believe that they are not made for the ordinary but for the rich, and they have a strong sense of making money, something in their blood, so they will try every effort to become rich.

    2.  Leisure

The ordinary: are moved to tears by the plot lines of soap operas while they watch TV at home and still dress themselves by following the fashion in TV.(Think about the TV series you have seen, do they have any influences on you?

The rich: run the market and even bring the project contracts with them when they are playing golf.

    3.  Circle of communication

The ordinary: like to visit some common relatives and their circle of communication are almost the ordinary. Worse perhaps, they do not want to contract with the rich, which leads to an ordinary mentality, an ordinary thinking as well as an ordinary pattern to do things. They talk about the discounted goods and exchange saving techniques every day, which are good for training viability, though, their visions will be gradually limited to such trivialities and their ambitions will be fretted away.(This will be beautified as “not swerved courage” unconsciously in our hearts.”

The rich: like making friends with those who can help to improve their various abilities without permitting themselves in dissipation but according to their own personal preference.

    4.Study

The ordinary: learn a trade.( A clear explanation is given in rich father.)

The rich: study Management.

    5.Time

The ordinary: one enjoying all the time can not make a lot of money for a relaxed life may cost one more chance of making money. The ordinary's time is so worthless, even redundant sometimes, that they don’t know how to spend it. It’s a typical general thinking for one to be angry with spending one more dime for a pound of cabbage instead of aching for wasting time. (Agony and boredom are the words most frequently heard in QQ, which makes one not want to hear more!

The rich: No matter which way one earns money and how much he can make, it must be accumulated over time. Therefore, it is a way of working for the rich to play with purpose. The leisure of the rich, leisure of body instead of leisure of mind is a self-cultivation method benefiting their future work, while the ordinary’s leisure is in minds and they are always on their feet to  play mahjong.(All success lie in accumulation

6.  Sense of belonging

 The ordinary: are the screws. The ordinary lacking of a sense of security for their lowliness eagerly hope for a group to be subordinated and relied on. Then they take the group standards as their own standards and work, sprint as well as move for the good of this group. To the ordinary, it would be the most wonderful ideal to work stably, from the intern to the senior executives, in a well-known enterprise for decades.

The rich: leaders of those groups are usually the rich. On one hand, they always hammer some ideas to the ordinary: Unity is strength and you are nothing if you are not subordinate to this group. On the other hand, they never stop recruiting and training new people to take you place at any time.

7.   Investment and treatment of wealth

The ordinary: spending less is tantamount to earn more. For example, it’s really nice to the ordinary with 100% yield and an investment of 20,000 Yuan as well as a net gain of 20.000 Yuan per year for running a noodle shop. Even if the ordinary had money, they do not grudge taking it out and even if the investment was finally determined, they are so afraid of taking risks that they  finally can not step that step. The ordinary like to talk about topics of the chicken and egg as well as gaining enormous profit out of a small capital investment…..while the hope on a hen is so weak.(Purchase more assets and make money work for you.)

The rich: The rich set out to make big profit with small capital. Running a noodle shop as well, the rich will think, a noodle shop only needs an investment of 20,000 Yuan. If there are one hundred million Yuan, does that mean we should open 5000 noodle shops? How much for the boss to worry about and how many gray hairs will grow for tiredness in the good running of every shop? In this case, it would be much better to invest the money in hotels, because a hotel can fully digest all capital and may earn 20,000,000 net profit a year even with only 20% annual yields!

8.  Passion. Passion decides whether you can achieve the great things or not.

 The ordinary: have no passion. They may seldom make big mistakes by doing things step by step, though, they will never make the best, because they can not feel excited without passion, which makes it impossible for them to work with heart. In fact, most of the ordinary have passions, but their passions are gobbled up by concrete objectives. For example, they will be excited about bosses’ praises as well as stores’ discount. Besides, they may be softened into tears while the characters in TV get together again, so it could be said that the ordinary have nothing but the emotion.

The rich: “How can a common fellow read the mind of a great man?” “Are the nobilities born?” One who has such passions could not be the ordinary. Passion is a kind of nature, a symbol of vitality and the spark of inspiration, the vivid personality, the strong appeal in relationships as well as the charm and ways to solve problems are all come from passion.

9.Confidence

The ordinary: Only by being armed to the teeth and the dresses with exclusive brands as well as grand accessories can cheer them up, so the ordinary’s confidence is not from their inner hearts, not naturally-formed as well.(Confidence is a kind of ability for handling crisis.

The rich: Li Ka-shing, speaking on the secret of management, said:“There is nothing special actually and I am against over-optimism in good times as well as over-pessimism during bad times.” In fact, it is the unique confidence for the rich. Only the man with confidence can not be trapped by outer forces and can make correct decisions.

10.Habit

The ordinary: Here is a story: The ordinary person started striving hopefully after a rich man sent him a cow. However, a cow shall eat straw as well as a man is fed, which made him have a hard time. As a result, the ordinary man sold the cow, then bought several sheep and ate one, the rest of which are for lambing. Whereas, the ordinary man lead another hard time again for Lambs haven’t yet been born, so he sold the sheep and bought chickens in the hope of making money from eggs. Unluckily, his life did not change and finally he killed chickens. His dream completely died ultimately. This is the ordinary’s habit.(There is always unpaid debts in life.

The rich: According to an investment expert, the rich secret of success is: no money, when, no matter how difficult it is, do not use the investment and savings when you have no money, because   pressure will help to find new ways to make money and help you pay off bills, which is a good habit. As we all know, a person's character forms habit, which decides his success.

11.  Surfing on the internet

The ordinary: They always chat online. Here are two reasons for the ordinary chatting online: One is that they have plenty time and the other is that they are born the gossip, while the rich pay close attention to the virtue, like de-enhanced attitude towards honor and disgrace as well as gentilesse, only with which can do great things. However, the ordinary do not think so much and they are looked down upon by others all day long as well as trapped by the trivial things, which make them suffer a lot, so they may ask:“Can’t we talk about the long-sufferings?” Yeah, chat is justified!

The rich: Search investment opportunities on net. By making use of low cost and high efficiency of the internet as well as looking for more investment opportunities and projects, the rich apply conveniences to their business.

 

 

12.  Consumption

The ordinary: They buy named brands for experiencing satisfaction and like to experience the new fashionable and innovative products as well as believe that the most expensive one must be the best one.

The rich: They buy named brands just for saving time and they care much more about the quality of the goods than their prices. For example, they may buy a cotton spun t-shirt with 15 Yuan rather than the expensive Leica goods.