“If I’d known I was going to live so long, I’d have taken better care of myself.” - Leon Eldred
As I mentioned recently, I was a junk-food addict in my not-too-distant past, and ballooning alarmingly around the waistline. I was addicted to burgers and sodas and fries and pizzas and sweets and all the fast food you can think of and most especially chocolate.
Today, while I can’t say I only eat wheat germ and fresh veggies picked right from my home garden, I generally eat healthier than I have ever done in my life.
How did I get from Point A (junk food junkie) to Point B (much healthier diet)? I’ll let you in on my secret (and it’s not a secret if you’re one of the many people who discovered this already): I didn’t go from Point A to Point B. It’s more like Point A to Point Z, with lots of points in between.
Actually, that’s the secret to any meaningful improvement, in my experience, but we’ll just talk about eating healthy for now.
Today I’m a vegetarian (mostly vegan) and I try to eat lots of fruits and veggies and whole grains and nuts and beans. I’ll admit that I still have burgers, though they’re veggie burgers instead of fatty meat burgers, and I usually have them with whole grain bread or buns and lots of fresh veggies on them. And I don’t use fatty mayo anymore, but Veganaise, which helps.
I also eat pizza, but it’s not covered in sausages or pepperoni, but veggies. I still eat burritos, but I try to fill them with low-fat beans, veggies, salsa, instead of fatty stuff. I really really enjoy soy yogurt and fresh berries, whole-grain cereal with soy milk, oatmeal with berries and nuts. Mmmmm.
My point is that I don’t deprive myself, but have learned to love foods that are at least a little bit healthier, and in some cases much healthier. I also don’t miss meat at all, but the secret to that is the baby steps we’ll talk about in this post.
The Problem With Most Diet Plans
New fad diets in books and magazines and the Internet are a dime a dozen. Some of them are actually pretty decent, but almost all of them have one single flaw that will make it very difficult for anyone to stick to them.
The flaw? They try to get you to change your entire diet at once.
That just doesn’t work for most people. I’ve tried lots of diets, and for the first week, I’m extremely enthusiastic and determined. But such a drastic change in diet is hard to sustain, and soon you give in to temptation and then it falls apart. We’ve all been there.
The Power of Small Changes
The title of this post is misleading, and I’ll admit that. Most people associate a “12-step program” with alcoholics anonymous or similar program, but this post isn’t about those programs at all.
That it is about is making changes to your diet one small step at a time. Baby steps. The miracle of this is that we adjust to these small changes after a couple weeks, until they seem normal and we don’t feel like we’re depriving ourselves of anything.
Take meat for example. Let’s say you wanted to become a vegetarian, and you cut out all meat from your diet completely. You’d feel very deprived, and you might have a very hard time. Most people wouldn’t last very long — maybe a week or two at most — before caving in and eating meat and feeling guilty.
But let’s say instead that you just started with beef. Well, at dinner tonight, you probably wouldn’t notice much because you could have chicken or fish or turkey or pork — all the stuff you might normally eat. After a few weeks, going without beef would seem normal, and you probably wouldn’t miss it much.
Repeat that process for pork, and soon you’ve cut red meat from your diet (assuming you don’t eat much venison or buffalo or otter or whatnot). Then do chicken — this might be a difficult stage for many — and just eat seafood for awhile. After a few weeks of that, though, you’d get used to it. Next step is dropping seafood, and soon you’re a vegetarian who doesn’t miss meat one bit.
I’m not saying you need to become a vegetarian. I’m saying that small steps, taken a few weeks at a time, makes the process much easier. I’ve done it with meat, with fried foods, with sweets, with eating more fruits and whole grains, and many other food changes, and it’s worked every time.
You get used to it, if you do it a bit at a time.
The 12-Step Program
Actually, what follows is just an example. You can use as many steps as you want, making whatever changes you want. This is just a sample of what can be done, to give you some ideas.
The rules:
- Apply these changes, one at a time, until you get used to them. This will probably be 3-4 weeks per step. But in a year’s time, you’ll be eating as healthy as possible.
- Focus as much energy as possible on each change for at least a couple weeks. Don’t deviate if you can. Don’t worry, you’ll get used to it.
- If it seems too difficult, make a smaller step instead. For example, instead of cutting out sweets, just cut out cakes and donuts. Smaller steps make things much easier.
- Always replace bad food with healthy food that you enjoy. What I’ve given are just examples — everyone has different tastes.
OK, so here’s an example of how this step-by-step process could work:
- Eat fruits for snacks. If you snack on junk food during the day, have some fruits by your side at all times. When you’re feeling hungry for a snack, eat a fruit. One of those bags of small apples is a handy thing — you can’t go wrong with apples.
- Drink water instead of soda. The only thing I drink (besides an occasional beer) is water. I’m not saying you need to do that, but try to cut out sugary drinks a bit at a time, replacing them with water.
- Eat whole grain bread. If you eat white bread or bagels or whatever, replace them with whole-grain versions. Be sure to look at the ingredients — it shouldn’t say enriched wheat flour, but whole grain. Also try to avoid breads with high-fructose corn syrup (actually, avoid that ingredient in anything).
- Add fresh veggies to dinner. If you don’t already, have some steamed greens with dinner. Cut out a less healthy side dish if you usually eat something else.
- Cut out red meat. You can still eat poultry and seafood for now. You can later cut those out too if you want.
- Make pizza instead of ordering. Homemade pizza is the best, and if you haven’t made it yet, you should. The simple way is to get a ready-made whole-wheat crust, although making your own tastes even better. Start with the simple version, though, as you don’t want to make things too difficult. For the simple version, just add some gourmet spaghetti sauce (not Ragu), cut up some veggies (I like tomatoes and mushrooms and spinach and olives, but you can use anything, even potatoes). Brush the veggies with some olive oil. You can add grated cheese or soy cheese if you want, though it’s not necessary. Bake till it looks cooked. Mmmm.
- Nuts instead of chips. If you normally snack on chips, try unsalted peanuts or raw almonds.
- Soymilk instead of whole milk. Whole milk is fatty (not to mention the suffering done by the cows in modern dairy factories). Soymilk is much healthier. You get used to it after awhile, like all the changes on this list, but if soymilk is a problem at least drink 1% milk.
- Whole grain cereal. If you eat sugary cereal, try a whole-grain cereal instead.
- Berries instead of candy. This is a recent change of mine, and it’s actually been much easier than I thought. I used to snack on chocolate candy all the time, but now I try to eat berries to satisfy my sweet cravings and it works!
- Scrambled tofu instead of fried eggs. Scrambled tofu is a secret vegan wonder. Try this recipe.
- Try some great veggie dinners. There are so many good ones out there if you haven’t tried them. Try my soup or chili.
If you implement 12 changes, you’ll probably be eating healthier than you ever have before. A great thing is that once you’ve done this, you’ll probably keep going, to 20 steps and beyond.
“Be careful about reading health books. You may die of a misprint.” - Mark Twain
译文:
12步计划:吃的比以往更健康
“如果早知道我能活那么久,我会更好地照顾自己。”--利昂·埃尔德雷德
最近我提过,在并不算久的过去,我是一个垃圾食品爱好者,我的腰围也警告了我这一点。我酷爱汉堡包、碳酸饮料、炸薯条、匹萨和糖果,反正你能想到的一切快餐我都喜欢,尤其是巧克力。
现在,我不敢说我只吃麦芽和刚从我花园里摘来的新鲜蔬菜,但我确实比以往任何时候都要吃得健康。
我是怎样从A点(吃垃圾食品)到B点(拥有更健康的饮食)的呢?我会告诉你我的秘密(如果你已经是众多发现者之一,那就不再是秘密了),我并不只是从A点到了B点,我更像是从A点到了Z点,其中有太多的注意点了。
其实,就我的经历来看,对于任何有意义的改进来说这都是一个秘密,但我们现在就讨论一下关于吃得健康的问题吧。
现在我是一名素食主义者(大多数情况下),我试着迟很多水果,蔬菜,谷类,坚果类和豆类。我承认我还是吃汉堡包的,但不再是那些夹有肥肉的汉堡,而是蔬菜汉堡,而且吃的时候我常在上面加全麦面包和许多新鲜蔬菜。而且我不再加油腻的蛋黄酱了,改用对身体有益的蔬菜汁。
我也仍然吃匹萨,但不再是以香肠或意大利辣香肠为佐料了,我改用蔬菜的了。我仍然吃玉米煎饼,但我在里面加了低脂豆类,蔬菜,辣番茄酱而不是含脂肪的东西了。我真的真的很喜欢吃大豆酸奶和新鲜浆果,谷类加豆奶,还有燕麦加浆果和坚果,嗯,味道好极了。
我的观点就是我不剥夺自己的快乐,但我学会爱吃那些稍微健康的食物了,在某些情况下是健康了许多的食物。我也不是完全不吃肉,然而秘诀就是我们接下来要讨论的步骤了。
大多数饮食计划的问题
书上,杂志上和网络上新兴时尚的饮食计划多到不值钱。其中有些的确是不错的,但大多数都有一个缺点,那就是很让人难以坚持。
缺点?他们试图让你一下子改变所有的饮食习惯。
对大多数人来说这样是没有效果的。我试过很多饮食计划,开始第一周时,我有着高度的热情和决心。但变化如此巨大的饮食是很难维持的,不久你就会败给诱惑然后放弃。我们都曾那样。
细微变化的力量
我承认本文的标题有误导性。许多人会把“12步计划”和“匿名的酒鬼”或类似的计划有关,但实际上本文讨论的不是这些内容。
本文讨论的内容是关于在一段时间内对你的饮食做细微的改变,只是一些小步骤。神奇的就是我们在几周后慢慢适应了一些小变化,直到后来这些变化看上去是很自然的,我们没有感觉到自己被剥夺了任何东西。
拿吃肉做例子吧。假如你想变成一个素食者,你打算完全不吃肉。你可能会感到被剥夺了很大一部分快乐,会度过一段很难熬的时光。大多数人坚持不了多久--大多也许是一两周--然后只有投降,抱着负罪感继续吃肉。
但让我们假设你只是从牛肉开始改变。好,今天晚饭时,你很有可能不会注意到因为你煮了鸡肉、鱼肉、火鸡肉或是猪肉--这些东西都是你平时吃的。几周后,没有牛肉对你来说也似乎很正常了,你可能也不会太想念它。
然后对猪肉你也重复这一步骤,不久你就会将肉类从你的饮食中去掉(假设你不吃太多野味或水牛肉或海獭或其他什么的东西的情况下)。然后是鸡肉--这对许多人来说也许是很困难的一步--你可以一段时间内只吃海鲜。这以后的几周,你会习惯的。下一步是不吃海鲜,不久你就会变成一个不再想吃肉的素食者了。
我不是说你必须要变成一个素食者。我谈的是那些小的步骤,一次持续几星期,使整个过程变容易很多。我已经靠这样戒掉了吃肉、油炸食品、糖果、过多水果和谷类以及其他许多习惯,每次都很奏效。
如果你每次都做一些小变化,你一定会习惯的。
12步计划
其实,下列计划只是一个例子。你可以随自己的喜好取其精华,加以改变。这只是用来告诉你可以做些什么,给你一些建议。
规则:
每次做一些改变,直到你习惯了它们。每步大约耗时3-4周。但在一年的时间内,你在吃的方面会健康很多。
尽量投入精力,每个变化至少持续几周。如果可以的话尽量坚持。别担心,你一定会习惯的。
如果太困难,就再制定一个更小的步骤。比如说,想要戒掉甜食,先从蛋糕和甜面包圈开始。变化越小,进展得更容易。
以你喜欢的健康食品来代替不健康的。我说的只是举出列子--每个人口味不同。
好,下面是具体步骤:
以水果代替零食。如果你喜欢整天吃垃圾食品,那么在你身边随时放上水果。当你想吃零食时,就吃个水果。那些袋装小苹果总是唾手可得--你吃这些不会有害处。
以水代替碳酸饮料。我现在只喝水(除了在必要场合会喝些啤酒)。我不是强调你必须这么做,但试着在一段时间内戒掉含糖饮料,多喝水。
吃全麦面包。如果你以前吃的是白面包或百吉饼或别的什么,现在开始吃全麦面包。记住购买之前要看成分--里面不该含有强精面粉,而应该是全麦的。同时也要避免吃那些含高糖玉米糖浆的面包(事实上,应该避免所有含其他成风的面包)。
晚饭中加入新鲜蔬菜。如果现在你还没有这么做,那么晚饭时加入一些蒸过的蔬菜吧。如果你吃别的食物的话,尽量减少不健康食物的量。
尽量不吃红肉。你现在还是可以吃家禽肉和海鲜。如果你想的话以后也可以再戒掉这些。
自制匹萨代替点单匹萨。家庭自制的匹萨是最好的,如果你还没有做过,你应该试一下。虽然按照自己的口味做面包胚是最好的,但比较简单的方法是去买一个现成的全麦面包胚。一开始先做简单的匹萨,因为你不想把事情弄得太难。做简单的匹萨时,只要加上些美味的意大利细面条的酱汁(注意不是肉汁酱)。切些蔬菜(我喜欢番茄、蘑菇、菠菜和橄榄,但你也可以随便用什么,甚至是土豆),在蔬菜上刷些橄榄油。如果你喜欢,也可以加一些搓碎的干酪或大豆干酪,虽然我觉得没什么必要。烤到看上去熟了为止。嗯,味道好极了。
以坚果代替薯条。如果你以前喜欢吃薯条,试着吃些不加盐的花生或未加工的杏仁。
以豆奶代替全脂牛奶。全脂牛奶脂肪含量太高(更别说这些牛奶是来自那些在现代化奶制品厂里受罪的牛)。豆奶要健康很多。过不了多久你就会习惯喝了,就像这张表里的所有变化一样,但如果豆奶对你来说真的是个问题,那就最多再喝1%的牛奶吧。
整粒谷物食品。如果你以前吃的是含糖谷类食品,那么现在试试吃整粒谷物食品吧。
以浆果代替糖果。这是我最近的一项变化,事实上它比我想象的简单得多。我以前整天喜欢吃巧克力,但现在我用浆果来满足我对甜食的渴望,而这的确有效!
以凉拌豆腐代替煎蛋。凉拌豆腐是很神奇的素食,试试这个菜谱。
晚饭时试试一些很棒的蔬菜。如果你没有试过,那真的还有很多很好吃的蔬菜。你可以尝试做一下我的
汤和
红辣椒。
如果你能执行这12个变化,很有可能你比以往吃得都要健康。一旦你做到这些了,你很有可能继续向前,直到第20步甚至更远,这就太好了。
“当你读健康书籍的时候一定要小心,很有可能你会死于印刷错误。”--马克·吐温