The reverse side of handle is abandonment, getting an apportunity means giving up all the other possibilities. Braving to give up the original things you have got in front of new chance doesn't mean
falling short of success for lack of a final effort, or giving up halfway, but to seek bigger room to develop: or for nothing but only you like it, because youth is the biggest opportunity. Man have this courage, capital and qualification only before 30.
2.failure in love
It dose not mean we don't mind it, but means we are unable to take care of it.We affraid to lose dream much more than any other things before 30.If love is just a course ,then we should get through it at this very age, if it need to bare the result, then maybe we are more capable and qualified after 30.In fact we have a lot to do before 30, so indulging in a break love too long can't match with the life rhythm of this age.
3.divorce
It does not mean we don't care, but we are still in time to do it. A 38 years old girl friend divorce with her hudsband after 15 years marriage and 13 years cold war.She said"if i refused to divorce later for child, then i don't know why i refused at the first time when he proposed to divorce. My life will be much better if i have given up at that time, it seems too late for me to start again.
4.drifting
It is not a misfortune, but a qulification. what is the much better time for drifting than now?since we are free of family burdon and .Of course ,instead of the body, may be it is only the imagination and dream which is drifting. Fashing leader of the new centrary is the drifting generation, who desires to drift only with the constant mind for ever .
5.unemployment
It is certainly a misfortune but maybe not a bad thing to go through employment before 30.Maybe nothing is more unfortunate than fixing the whole life on one career before 30.Unemployment may wake up your dream buried deeply for a long time,stimulte the potency you never ware, drive you to set a dream even if you don't have any dream at first.
6. Fanshion
Don't pursue fashion.It is said the young should be fashionable,but independent thought and special lift is more important.In the material socialty.Pursuing for fashion is equal to pursuing for money.Now,fashion has become a Synonym of desire and secular
7.Style
It is belonged to bourgeois,which is very popular again today.They make pursuing style as their patent.These bourgeois said there are four things to satisfy style: wise,accomplishment,confidence and money.To enjoy style they consider dignity as wear,temperament,habit and decoration in the house,which means the uncouth fellow can show only vuglar in talk and action,while the "bourgeois "are capable of making their mind vulgar. Though the main thought is not necessary to be special, speciality has become main notion of the young, so in today's world,which is a time for notion-creation instead of holding on the old opinion, old-fashion is supported to be special.
8.comment
Don't sacrifice to change ourselves because of others' comment, it is not deserve,for those people commenting on you don't know what standard he is following.Don't act only according to the rules, for rules are still in creation,instead we should do everything as ourselves' judgement,even though it is more difficult.
9.Childish
Don't afraid if someone said we are childish, for this means you are young and vigorous."sophistication"is not only a scraring word,but also a harmful one."sophistication" and "childish"is couple of words, which is the emptiest and improper, most unresponsible, most useless.These mediore persons will never admit they are childish.if you don't believe,you will finally said to be sophisticate and acquire it,when one day you are depressed to be old mannish by life.
10.inadaption
there is a word in a rock music"the city changed me,the city don't need me any more"Don't try to adapt yourself to your life enviorement blindlessly,for maybe the enviorenment itself is not suitable for the social development any more.
11.failure
one of my teacher has ever told me that one can only grow up after going through at least a failure in love,a fall in career and a mistake in choice.Don't mention failure is mother of success.The earlier failure comes the better you are, for it is too late for something if we meet failure after 30 or 40.
12.mistake
this is young guy's patent.
13.shallow
If you cry at every time to watch< titanic>,or laugh a lot every time to watch<DA HUA CI YOU>,someone will laugh at you for your shallow, but in fact that means you are still so sensitive that you will react very swiftly and properly even to a very minor stimulation.Peope will say you are deep when you are inertia.
14.Star
It does not mean not neccessary to take care, it is we can't care.Star is a costumer good in the commercial society,for we spend money listening the music and watching.So no matter how good the star act,it is just good value for money,but not deserve admiring. Just like you spend 50 on the skirt in the ground sale, but others think it worth 800 yuan, isn't it good value for money?would you admire this skirt?
15.Cost
It does not mean don't care about the cost, but to understand we can do nothing without cost.It is definitely not a nonsense for our age,otherwise we can't understand how much we have paid until 30 years old, but still don't know for what we have paid, and not to say what and how much we have gained.
16. Loneliness
This is what we cost for freedom.
17.Frustration
It includes disppointment on emotion and business,maybe just for spending money on something dislike,or being unable to utter any word with many excellent friends in friends' hall.It is making a fool of oneself by life and punishing oneself by others' mistake,if you pay too much attention to frustration.
18.disadvantage
maybe you are short,ugly,or voice like Done duck,then your advantage is that you will never be delayed for you surperfacial merit,so that you can find your inner virtue and deep potentcy directly without less time and difficulties.
19.misunderstanding
Any axplaination is useless if it is malicious,but not necessary to expain if it is considerate.We mention misunderstanding here not because it is difficult to be understand, but because people can't take it is at this age.
20.Rumor
This is an epidemic plague which can be immune by silence best.Expaination is the best condition for virus transmitting, if you cann't find the epidemic origin.
21.Crazy
This is the best psychological adjustion for the youth,which suggest your vitality and health.It is some depressed and tired old people who say you are crazy,they just like a vintage machine which desire some very minor fix ,for any big repair will run them out.
22.stablity
There are two possibilities for desire the stable life, to win a lottery or to become senile before one's time.
23.Pressure
The pressure the mid-age sustaining tests his resistence,while the one the young bares inspires his potency.
24.go abroad
It maybe a chance or a trap.If you can not set up the aim when you join in the colleage entrence examination.you must try hard to get it but recept its result as we treat love.
25.salary
The salary can never be too high if work for others.So chance ,career,future are all more important than money before 30.For most of us,the primary goal for working before 30 is future instead of money.
26.money
It is not because we are poor,for all the youth now adays understand money is vital.
With so good chance and condition,we can use money as mortage,and we also can use tomorrow's money for today's business.We can spend money in investiment and studying further.Money can only be money during circulation,or it is only the best rubbish in the world.
27.House
You buy house only for appreciation or marriage.I have a classmate who didn't work in his hometown.His family bought him a house after graduation for the employer didn't offer him a dormitory.He had a chance to work in Beijing,but he gave up for he thought it is unreasonable to leave the city just after buying the house.Now,he got a stable work,but has accomplished nothing in carreer.With the thought not to make the house empty forever,the only thing he achived is he has married and got a child, then the house became the family.House is the fable of the city, which should not be related to us too early.
28.Age
Girls always refuse to tell their age,in fact it is not necessary at all.Since now the youth has be prolonged to 45,is 25 years old means very late?
29.mind
This is a thought which can neither drop nor take.Its opposition isn't abandon but freedom without any restriction and the everlast positive spirit