Peole always come into your life for a reason, a season and a lifetime. When you figure out which it is, you know exactly what to do.
When someone is in your life for a reason, it is usually to meet a need you have expressed outwardly and inwardly. They have come to assist you through a difficulty, or to provide you with guidance and support, to aid you physically, emotionally, or even spiritually. They may seem like a godsend to you, and they are. They are there for a reason, you need them to be. Then, without any wrong doing on your part or at an inconvenient time, this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end. Sometimes they die, sometimes they just walk away. Sometimes they act up or ut and force you to take stand. What we must realize is that our need has been met, our desire fulfilled. The prayer you sent up has been answered and it is now time to move on.
When people come into your life for season, it is because your turn has come to share, grow, or learn. They may bring you an experience of peace or make you laugh. They may teach you somthing you have never done. They usually give you an unbelievable amout of joy. Believe it! It is real! But, only for a season. And like Spring turns to Summer and Summer to Fall, the season eventually ends.
Lifetime relationships teach you a lifetime of lessons; those things you must build upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation. Your joy is to accept the lesson, love the person; and put what you have learned to use in all other relationships and areas in your life.
It is said that love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant. Thank you for being part of my life.