时代在进步，思想在超越。“80’后”的群体是个比较特殊的年代，自由，自在，画着属于自己的人生蓝图。
生存竞争如此激烈，就业环境日益严峻，给“80’后”有了不少压力。爱情是浪漫而有激情的一场梦幻无规则的游戏；婚姻是现实而残酷的面对生活的琐事和细节。
“80’后”的婚姻生活是复杂的，情感变化是无阻碍的，周期是缩短的。从有爱情到没爱情，从有感觉到没感觉，，其感情严肃的程度降低了，“80’后”的生活客观上社会开放性高，感情受到外界的影响的可能性比更大，其结果对日常感情的质量的要求更高了，婚姻“凑合”的机率会降低，从而突然“死亡”的可能性更大。
“80’后的爱情是自由的，是有更大的选择空间的，激情的青春放肆着年轻的气息。一方面有自主选择的空间，养成了高度自由选择的习惯；另一方面心理负担超载，爱情的自由是有主调的。
“80’后”看似生活时尚，逍遥，面对的压力也非常大，多给我们时间与空间，给我们一些```````````
译文:
Love and marriage of the Post-'80 generation
The advancing of the thoughts is transcending that of the age. The post-80 generation is invested with a certain characteristic which stands out in the society. They make the blueprint of their own life on free and carefree basis.
The competition of life is so intense, with a sobering outlook of the job market, that it put a lot of pressure on the post-80 generation. The romantic and passionate love amuses them with fantasy and unpredictability; while the realistic and prosaic marriage shackles them with trivia and details.
The married life is complicated; the feeling for love is capricious; the time of marriage is shrinking. The seriousness of relationship has been impaired since the love comes and goes so swiftly. Exposing to the higher openness of life, the post-80 generation has greater possibility to be affected by the outside world. As a result, there is greater demand for exquisite relationship and slimmer chance that the incompatible one will drag on. The breaking-up is happening anytime, anywhere, anyplace.
The love of the post-80 generation enjoys wider range of choice with the enthusiasm of youth filling to the brim. They have developed into the habit of choosing with high freedom; while the heart is over weighted with moral limitation and principle of love.
The life of the post-80 generation has a semblance of fashionable and easy-going. However, we need time to tackle the problem of pressure.