养子在自己工作的店找到了生母

读者: 1118    发布时间: 2007

原文: Adopted Son Finds Birth Mom at his Workplace

 
For years, Steve Flaig, a delivery truck driver a Grand Rapids Lowe's store, had searched for his birth mother.

He found her last Friday, working the cash register at the front of the store. For several months, Flaig and his mother, Christine Tallady, had known each other casually as co-workers.

It was a tough decision for Tallady, unmarried at the time, to give him up when he was born on Oct. 5, 1985, but "I wasn't ready to be a mother," she said. Flaig had always known he was adopted. It was never hidden from him by his adoptive parents and they supported him when he began to search for his birth parents.

When Flaig turned 18 he asked DA Blodgett for Children, the agency that arranged his adoption, for his background information. A couple of months later it came and it included his birth mother's name. He searched the Internet for her address and when it came up empty he gave up the search. But around the time of his 22nd birthday he again took out the paperwork from DA Blodgett and realized he had been spelling his mother's surname wrong as "Talladay." He typed "Tallady" into a search engine and came up with an address less than a mile from the Lowe's store.

He mentioned the coincidence to his boss, and she said, "You mean Chris Tallady, who works here?"

"I was like, there's no possible way," he said. "It's just such a bizarre situation."

He had been working at Lowe's for two years. She was hired in April as head cashier.

译文: 养子在自己工作的店找到了生母

 
史蒂夫·弗莱格(Steve Flaig)是大急流市(Grand Rapids,美国城市)罗威商店(Lowe's)的货车司机,他多年以来一直在寻找自己的生母。

上周五,他找到了生母,当时她就在这家店的前台做现金出纳工作。几个月以来,弗莱格和他的母亲克莉丝汀·泰拉迪(Christine Tallady)凑巧成为了同事,互相认识。

泰拉迪当年未婚生子,当她在1985年10月5日生下孩子的时候,她做出了一个艰难的决定抛弃孩子。但她说:“那时候我还没准备好当妈妈呢!”弗莱格一直都知道自己是被领养的。他的养父母从未对他隐瞒这一点,并且当他开始寻找自己的亲生父母的时候,还给予他支持。

当弗莱格18岁的时候,他向为他安排收养事宜的机构——布洛杰森特儿童领养处(DA Blodgett for Children)询问了他的背景信息。两个月之后,他收到了答复,里面告知了他生母的姓名。他在互联网上搜索母亲的地址,但是毫无所得,于是他放弃了寻找。但是在他22岁生日左右,他又拿出了布洛杰森特儿童领养处的文件,并意识到,他把母亲的姓错拼成了“Talladay”。于是他在搜索引擎中输入“Tallady”,然后查到了一个地址,此地址距离罗威商店不到一英里。

他向自己的老板提到了这个巧合的事,老板说道:“你说的是在我们这里工作的克莉丝·泰拉迪吗?”

他说:“我以为已经没什么可能找到她了,这种情况太奇怪了!”

他已经在罗威工作了两年,而她在4月份成为了这家店的出纳主管。