1.不要为了寂寞去恋爱，时间是个魔鬼，天长日久，如果你是个多情的人，即使不爱对方，到时候也会产生感情，到最后你怎么办？
2.不管多大多老，不管家人朋友怎幺催，都不要随便对待婚姻，婚姻不是打牌，重新洗牌要付出巨大代价。
3.感情的事基本上没有谁对谁错，他(她)要离开你，总是你有什么地方不能令他满足，回头想想过去在一起的日子，总是美好的。当然，卑劣的感情骗子也有，他们的花言巧语完全是为了骗取对方和自己上床，这样的人还是极少数。
4.和一个生活习惯有很多差异的人恋爱不要紧，结婚要慎重，想想你是否可以长久忍受彼此的不同。
5.在要求对方必须是处女的时候，想想自己是不是处男，如果是，你可以，如果不是，你凭什么？
6.不要随便和别人上床，否则将来遇到一个真爱但他洁身自好有原则的男人，你会后悔当年的所做所为。
7. 不要因为自己长相不如对方而放弃追求的打算，长相只是一时的印象，真正决定能否结合主要取决于双方的性格。我见过的帅哥配丑女，丑女配帅哥的太多了。
8. 离婚率高至少反映了好坏不同的两点：好的一点是人们的观念已经趋向人性化，不再为封建思想而禁锢自己，坏的一点是对于婚姻的轻率。没想好结什么婚？
9. 只会读书的女人是一本字典，再好人们也只会在需要的时候去翻看一下，只会扮靓的女人只是一具花瓶，看久了也就那样。服饰美容是做好一个女人的必要条件，不是充要条件。你还需要多看书。这样你会发现生活更加美好。
10. 草率地结了婚已经是错了，再也不要草率地去离婚。先试试看，真的不行再离也不迟。
11. 经常听说男人味女人味，你知道男人味是一种什么味道，女人味又是一种什么味道吗？男人味就是豁达勇敢，女人味就是温柔体贴。
12. 魅力是什么？魅力不是漂亮，漂亮的女人不一定能吸引我，端庄幽雅的女人我才喜欢。所以你不用担心自己不够漂亮。
13. 初恋都让人难忘，觉得美好。为什么？不是因为他(她)很漂亮或很帅，也不是因为得不到的就是好的，而是因为人初涉爱河时心里异常纯真，绝无私心杂念，只知道倾己所有去爱对方。而以后的爱情都没有这么纯洁无瑕了。纯真是人世间最为可贵的东西。我们渴求的就是她。
14. 初恋的人大多都不懂爱，所以初恋失败的多。成功的少。结婚应该找个未婚的，因为谁都喜欢原装。
15. 男人有钱就变坏，是的，很多男人这样，不过，一有钱就变坏的男人就算没钱，也好不到哪里去。
16. 天长地久有没有？当然有！为什么大多数人不相信有？因为他们没有找到人生旅途中最适合自己的那一个。也就是冥冥中注定的那一个。为什么找不到？茫茫人海，人生如露，要找到最合适自己的那一个谈何容易？你或许可以在40岁时找到上天注定的那一个，可是你能等到40岁吗？在20多岁时找不到，却不得不结婚，在三四十岁时找到却不得不放弃。这就是人生的悲哀。
17. 和聪明的人恋爱会很快乐，因为他们幽默，会说话，但也时时存在着危机，因为这样的人很容易变心。和老实的人恋爱会很放心，但生活却也非常得乏味。
18. 有的人老是抱怨找不好人，一两次不要紧，多了就有问题了，首先你要检讨自己本身有没有问题，如果没有，那你就要审视一下自己的眼光了，为什么每次坏人总被你碰到？
19. 有人说男人一旦变心，九头牛也拉不回，难道女人变心，九头牛就拉得回来吗？男女之间只在生理上有差异，心理方面大同小异。
20. 如果真爱一个人，就会心甘情愿为他而改变。如果一个人在你面前我行我素，置你不喜欢的行为而不顾，那么他就是不爱你。所以如果你不够关心他或是他不够关心你，那么你就不爱他或他不爱你，而不要以为是自己本来就很粗心或相信他是一个粗心的人。遇见自己真爱的人，懦夫也会变勇敢，同理，粗心鬼也会变得细心。
21. 彼此都有意而不说出来是爱情的最高境界。因为这个时候两人都在尽情的享受媚眼，尽情的享受目光相对时的火热心理，尽情的享受手指相碰时的惊心动魄。一旦说出来，味道会淡许多，因为两人同意以后，所有的行为都是已被许可，已有心理准备的了，到最后渐渐会变得麻木。
22. 一个萝卜一个坑，说的是婚姻情况。事实上对于爱情来说，是不成立的，优秀的人，不管男女，都会是一个萝卜好几个坑。所以这个世界天天上演着悲欢离合的故事。
23. 有两种女人很可爱，一种是妈妈型的，很体贴人，很会照顾人，会把男人照顾的非常周到。和这样的女人在一起，会感觉到强烈的被爱。还有一种是妹妹型的。很胆小，很害羞，非常的依赖男人，和这样的女人在一起，会激发自己男人的个性的显现。比如打老鼠扛重物什幺的。会常常想到去保护自己的小女人。还有一种女人既 不知道关心体贴人，又从不向男人低头示弱，这样的女人最让男人无可奈何。
24. 有外遇并非坏男人的专利，好男人一样有，所以当你遇到这样的男人时，不要一棍子打死，可以试着给一次机会，能改还是可以在一起的。几十年的感情不容易，对于男人的偶尔出轨，有时候不必看得过重。
25. 都说一个成功的男人背后，常常有一个默默无闻的支持他的女人，那一个失败的男人的背后，是不是也常常有一个瞎捣乱的女人呢？
26. 浪漫是什么？是送花？雨中漫步？楼前伫立不去？如果两人彼此倾心相爱，什么事都不做，静静相对都会感觉是浪漫的。否则，即使两人坐到月亮上拍拖，也是感觉不到浪漫的。
27. 学会用理解的、欣赏的眼光去看对方，而不是以自以为是的关心去管对方。
28. 幼稚的人和幼稚的人在一起没什么问题，成熟的人和成熟的人在一起也没什么问题，成熟的人和幼稚的人在一起问题就多了。
29. 有的女人恋爱时让男友宠着自己，结婚后仍然要老公百般宠着自己，却忘记做为一个女人应该做的份内之事。这样的女人是不懂得爱情的。
30. 成熟的人不问过去；聪明的人不问现在；豁达的人不问未来。
译文:
Relish Thirty Classical Love Famous Sayings
1. Don’t go together with someone because you feel lonely. If you are a sentimental person, time is just a devil to you. Even if you don’t really love him, you may have feeling on him after a long time. What should you do then?
2. No matter how old you are, never treat your marriage casually because of the urgency from your relatives. Marrying is different from playing cards, for you will have to suffer a lot if you want to reshuffle.
3. There is no right and wrong in the matter of love. Usually it’s your own faults which dissatisfy him or her that make they leave you. Anyway the days you spent together are still “Auld Lang Syne” when looking back. There certainly exist some despicable love cheaters who speak flowery to deceive others into sleeping with them. Of course this kind of persons is still of the few.
4. It doesn’t matter to be in love with someone whose living habits are quite different from yours. But when you step into the level of marriage, think twice. Make sure that you can tolerate the difference of each other for a very long time.
5. Only when you yourself are a virgin do you have the right to demand your girlfriend to be a maiden.
6. Don’t sleep with others as you wish. You are sure to regret when you you’re your true Mr. Right in the future who accidentally requires a one-to-one relationship.
7. Keep pursuing your love despite your inferior appearance. Appearance is only a temporary impression and which decide contrarily are your characters. I’ve met so many handsome boys dating with plain girls and vice versa.
8. The high rate of divorce at least shows one advantage and one disadvantage. The advantage is people aren’t trapped by feudalism anymore and have a more humanistic notion. The disadvantage is their hastiness to marriage. Since you haven’t considered it thoroughly, why got married?
9. A woman who can merely read is a dictionary which may only be looked up when needed. A woman who can only make herself up is a vase which will be rebarbative when being seen for some time. Proper clothing and makeup are necessities to a woman although you can still be called a woman without them. You still need reading to find yourself more merit of life.
10. Hasty to marry is already an error, so hasty to divorce will add another. Try to tolerant before you can’t bear each other any longer.
11. We often hear others talking about the so-called a masculine man or a feminine woman. But do you truly know what it means? In my view, a masculine man should be generous and brave as a feminine woman tender and considerate.
12. What’s charm? Charm isn’t equal to beauty for men will not only be attracted by beautiful women but elegant and graceful ones. So don’t worry about your appearance.
13. First love is always nice and unforgettable. But why? It’s not because his or her superior appearance. Nor is for you’ve lost it. The reason is that your heart is pure when you first begin to love someone with your whole heart and soul. But the love after that is not so pure. Purity is the most precious thing in the world. Perhaps the only WHOM you long for is HER.
14. Most people are a bit childish when they first love, so most first love is tend to fail in spite of a small part of successful examples. Since every one likes original binding, you ought to aim at an unmarried target.
15. It’s true with many men that they are likely to be dissolute when becoming rich. While this kind of men is always not so good even if they are penniless.
16. Is there truly eternal love? Of course there is! Why most people don’t believe forever love? Because they aren’t able to find the most suitable person for them who is also the destined one. Why aren’t they able to find? Do you think it easy to get your most accidental and suitable meeting in the boundless huge crowds? You may be able to meet your destined partner when you are forty years old, but will you wait for this to happen till you are forty? In most cases, you have to marry at you twenties if you fail to find the very HIM or HER. Then it means you have to give up even if you finally find them at your thirties or forties. That is the very tragedy of life.
17. To fall in love with a clever person is usually full of happiness for they are always humorous and talkative. But there at the same time exists crisis because they are likely to cease to be faithful. To have a love affair with the frank one is reassuring but at the contrary lacks of surprise.
18. Some people complain that they can’t find the right person from time to time. It doesn’t matter once or twice but you have to criticize yourself if you do this now and then. Try to find out whether there is something wrong with yourself and if not perhaps you have to take a good look at your own taste and ask yourself why it’s always you who meet those wrong persons?
19. It’s said that once a man cease to be faithful, nothing can bring his heart back to you. But isn’t it also the same with a woman? There is only physical but no psychological difference between men and women.
20. It you truly love someone, you will be willing to change yourself for him or her. When he or she pays no attention to your likes and dislikes and behaves at their own will, it means they don’t really love you. So if you don’t care for him or her as they don’t for you, it shows you don’t love each other so much. And never take it for granted that you are born to be careless or comfort and cheat yourself to believe he is a careless person. For once meeting his true love, even a coward will become brave. It is as simple as that a carless person will turn to be considerate.
21. A silent love with the knowing acquiescence of both parts may be the best. For the two may be enjoying the soft glances, the passionate feelings or the tizzy from the touching of figures. Once it is uttered, all the above behaviors may be ones that are allowed and short of excitement or expectation, which at last makes you numbed with them.
22. “Anyone will at last find one to match him.” which is just used to describe the marriage. It is not true with the love actually. An excellent person, despite of his sex, will meet several suitable persons. So the stories of vicissitudes of life take place everyday throughout the world.
23. There are two categories of lovely women. One is maternity women who are able to take good care of men. A man will feel himself strongly loved when with this kind of women. The other is sister-like women. They are usually timid and shy and dependent on men. A man’s personality is likely to appear when with this kind of women. For example when it comes to catch the mice or carry the heavy things, a man will always tend to protect his own sister-like woman. There is also a third kind of women who neither knows how to be considerate nor is willing to nestle to men. Maybe they are the most unwelcome for men.
24. Not only will the dissolute men have extra-marital affair but the upright ones may have as well. So when your husband becomes loyal to you once, don’t sentence your marriage to death forever. Try to give him a second chance to make some repentance and remedy for you. It really costs you both a lot to build up your love for several decades, so don’t hold a grudge on his accidental betray for a life time. Spent the rest of your life together if he is able to atone for his own wrongdoings.
25. It is always said that there is an unknown woman who supports behind a successful man. Then does it also mean that there is a woman who likes making trouble of nothing behind an unsuccessful man?
26. What is romance? Is it sending flowers? Is it rambling together in the drizzle? Or is it standing in front of her house for a long time? If there is true love between the two, they will feel the romance even with nothing to do. Otherwise, even if they could date on the moon, it would not be romantic at all.
27. Learn to look at your lover with understanding and appreciative eye. Don’t name your care after control and always regard your control as right behaviors.
28. There will be no contradiction between two childish persons. Nor will there be between two mature ones. But there will be a great headache when childishness meets maturation.
29. Some kind of women requires their boyfriends to pamper them when they are dating, even after marriage do they ask their husbands to spoil them. But they forget how to complete their own duties. We can only say that such kind of women doesn’t really know what love is.
30. A mature man ignores the past, a wise man lets off the now, a generous man pays no attention to the future.