So what is this "thing" that people call LOVE?
An over used population of a word that no one knows the meaning of?
People need to get their facts straight…
A guy tells you he loves you, and next thing you know, he's breaking your heart with meaningless actions or words. Usually both.
I've seen true love…I have to live with it everyday because I moved my "mushy" best friend in with me, and he would literally die if ANYTIHNG ever happened to his girl, Mary. I mean, this guy can even watch porn without getting a "hard-on" because he's so into his girl. It's crazy, and I'm constantly picking on him, saying that I want to vomit and stuff, when really I know what they have is truly real because I've seen it and can feel it.
Now…I don't care what anyone says; I have my own ways of thinking and believing, as do we all.
When a guy watches porn, "jacks off to other females", looks at other girls, has fantasies of other women…etc, it IS considered cheating! The bible states right there, that even an impure thought is considered adultery. If your not Christian, and don't believe in such thing, you should still know that you are doing wrong, because you are telling your girl that you love her, yet thinking of being with other chicks!
Telling a girl you love her, means that she should be the most beautiful, most intelligent, gorgeous person that you have ever laid eyes on, which leaves no excuse for cheating! If you are in love with someone…they are perfect in every way, shape and form in your eyes, no matter what.
If you don't think of her as that way, then DO NOT tell her you love her, because you're not in love!!
There are different states:
- Infatuation- Usually comes before love, even though people misinterpret their feelings and thoughts, for misused phrases
- Loving someone- I love a lot of people. We all do. But that doesn't mean you find them the most amazing person in the world or anything. It just means that care about them, a lot. DO NOT MISINTERPRET LOVING SOMEONE FOR BEING IN LOVE WITH THEM!! DO NOT SAY I LOVE YOU AT THIS POINT IN TIME!!
- Being in love- You know you love them, you can feel with every ounce of your body, every bone you have shakes at the sight of seeing this special person. You want to be with them, hold them, kiss them, and tell them you'll be together forever. .
Think about the way you feel about the special person in your life before you decide to drop the "L" bomb and break hearts.