相处之道---5件女人需要从爱人身上获得的东西

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原文: Relationship Advice - Five Things A Woman Needs From Her Man

Good relationship advice is important to every couple that is involved in a relationship. Whether you're man or a woman, you should be aware of the five things that every woman needs from her man. Without doubt there are other things that could be contributed to this list, but I believe that at least these five "needs" are necessary to the success of your relationship.

If you are a man, work at providing them. If you are a woman, understand that unnecessary frustration is in store if your man doesn't recognize the importance of offering you with these five things.

 

1. A woman should feel appreciated. Now you might be surprised that I didn't begin with her desire for love. Most men will say, "I love you." But they may not appreciate their woman how she needs to be appreciated.

2. A woman should share a deep emotional bond with her man. Now what am I referring to? Women feel more secure when they see that their man is in touch with his feelings. They appreciate knowing that you have feelings and that you are not ashamed to share them.

3. A woman needs you to feel she is feminine and sexy. This makes obvious sense, but it is surprising how many men don't make much of an effort to convey their feelings about how they view their woman. Do you find her beautiful and lovely? Do you find her sexy? Then say so to her.

4. A woman should have a man who knows how to be romantic. What do I mean by romantic? Romance is a state of mind. It's finding the little things, like the way your girl's mouth moves when she's flirting with you or how much you appreciate her. But even more primary, it's taking the time and doing something about it. A romantic gesture from you is the true language of your woman's heart.

5. A woman needs a man who they can respect. One of the building blocks of any beneficial relationship is respect. If a woman stops trusting her man, it may end up killing their relationship. Though it can be difficult, if you really love your woman, you need to "be the man" and tell her plainly that you expect her to treat you with respect.

译文: 相处之道---5件女人需要从爱人身上获得的东西

对于每一对夫妻来说,那些好的可以增进他们夫妻关系的建议是十分重要的。不论你是男人还是女人,你要知道这5件女人需要从爱人身上获得的东西是什么。不要怀疑除了这些列举出来的以外还有其他的东西可以影响夫妻的关系,但是我确信对于成功的夫妻来说,这5件东西是必需的。

如果你是个男人,你就要着手准备起来。如果你是个女人,你要懂得假如你的丈夫不知道给你你所需要的5件东西的重要性的话,你将面临的就是没有意义的失落感。


1. 女人需要一个会赞美她的爱人。现在你可能会惊讶我并没有从女人对爱的渴望开始。大多数的男人会说:“我爱你。”但是他们也许没有夸奖过他们的爱人,并对她们说她们是多么应该被赞美。

2. 女人需要一个可以和她进行深层次的情感交流的爱人。现在我想表述的是什么呢?当女人知道她爱人心里的想法时,她会更有安全感。女人希望知道爱人的想法,并感觉爱人并不会因为和她分享心里的想法而感到尴尬。

3. 女人需要一个会告诉她,她很女人也很性感的爱人。这一点很明显,但是让人惊讶的是,有如此之多的男人并不会花一点点心思去表达他们对于自己爱人的看法。你觉得你的爱人美丽?还是可爱?你觉得她性感吗?把你的看法告诉她吧。

4. 女人需要一个懂得浪漫爱人。我指的浪漫是什么呢?浪漫是心理上的一种感觉。你可以在小事上感觉到它,就像是你的女孩在和你调情或是接受你的赞美时,她嘴角的一撇。但是最首要的是,它需要花费一些时间和工夫。你的一个浪漫的姿势在你爱人看来才是最真切的语言。

5. 女人需要一个可以让她尊重的爱人。建筑任何健康的关系的关键之一就是尊重。如果一个女人不再信任她的爱人,就说明他们的关系已经走到头了。虽然这么做很困难,但是,如果你真的很爱你的爱人,你需要像个男人的样子,坦白地告诉她你希望她可以尊重你。